Topic: Hi i'm a lesbian looking for a G/f.
Jessie784's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:19 PM
ok so like i said im a lesbian. i'm 18 i'm out to everyone including my family. I'm looking for a relationship not a one night stand. I'm an open book so ask me any question and i'll answer truthfully.

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:21 PM
How does it feel to be free?:smile:

Jessie784's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:30 PM
Amazing i love it though my relationship with my father has desentagrated i'm still happy i came out.

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:40 PM
My relationship with my lesbian daughter got better. We were able to talk better. She liked her lesbian girlfriend but told me she was too clingy. But at the time I was told that I was too clingy so I actually felt sorry for her girlfriend.

Jessie784's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:45 PM
frown sad My dad left the cuntry and hasen't called me in two mothes so im pretty sure are relationship is shot. i love my dad always will but he dosnt understand or except me. his love is cnditionol.

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:46 PM
But then she got married to a guy after telling me that she would never get married because of growing up with her mother and me. Don't you just hate it when people lie to you?

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:47 PM
Maybe he just has trouble accepting you for who you are.

Jessie784's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:50 PM
Maby. your daughter got married? to a man or a woman?

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:52 PM
She married a guy after telling me was gay. I guess there is a difference in a female gay and a lesbian?

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Sun 11/27/11 06:53 PM

Amazing i love it though my relationship with my father has desentagrated i'm still happy i came out.


Your dad will get through it. Just remember he spent 18 years building a vision and now he needs to have that vision somehow in his head reflect your happiness and not his vision.

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Sun 11/27/11 06:53 PM
Edited by mg1959 on Sun 11/27/11 06:55 PM
I've seen a few dads go through this shock. In their minds they picture a son in law.

Jessie784's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:54 PM


Amazing i love it though my relationship with my father has desentagrated i'm still happy i came out.


Your dad will get through it. Just remember he spent 18 years building a vision and now he needs to have that vision somehow in his head reflect your happiness and not his vision.

Maby.

Jessie784's photo
Sun 11/27/11 06:55 PM

She married a guy after telling me was gay. I guess there is a difference in a female gay and a lesbian?

your daughter was just questioning her sexuality its normal.

Queene123's photo
Sun 11/27/11 07:12 PM


She married a guy after telling me was gay. I guess there is a difference in a female gay and a lesbian?

your daughter was just questioning her sexuality its normal.


EXACTLY!!!!!
my daughter went through that for awhile
she decided she was a lesbien over 3yrs ago
and was in a relationship for a yr
we all saw the negativity of her partner but she didnt
her ex partner was very abusive even threaten my daughter life
my daughter was married to a man that was abusive and had a drug problem
he was the father of her 3 kids
she saw something we didnt.
she actually filed for divorce.... thank god

she now in a solid relationship with a man that cares about her and the kids and they had a baby together 2months ago

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 11/27/11 08:05 PM


She married a guy after telling me was gay. I guess there is a difference in a female gay and a lesbian?

your daughter was just questioning her sexuality its normal.

Yeah. Shes my rainbow.:smile:

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