or at least he implied it..

he called me today and said they guy hes been seeing hasnt broken up with his bf yet, and was told he had. also the guy is 16 years older than my ex, and said he wouldnt be comfortable having the whole world know about their relationship... so now my ex has been talking to me more, and opening up alot, and it seems like he wants to get back together... but he hasnt said so yet... not directly anyways. i got pretty good at reading between his many lines.


so its been less than 2 months... think hes just doing this as a ploy to keep me kickin around... so i dont see other people, so he can have me all to him self when hes ready...?


-dissucss-

You are going to get reburned. nuff said!

I find there is usually a really really really good reason someone is your ex. They can play nice for so many hours or days or even weeks and then the old garbage surfaces and you are like OH YA now I remember why you are an EX.

Trust your heart and thoughts.. it seems to me that you have already figured out what is really going on. I do not believe anyone should ever go back to someone they are no longer with. There is always a very good reason they became the "ex" . Plenty of fish in the sea and you are wasting your time with someone you already know can and will hurt you. You are still freshly hurt so do not do anything drastic. Give yourself time to mend. Good luck.

I agree with this

it's and x for a reason .... Keep moving... don't look back.

Pyxxie said it, you already have it figured out...It's just clouded by your emotions right now...She is giving you the best advice, take your time...and while your taking time, don't talk to him....

do you want to be that available to him? for him to have you to talk about these things with? I would think it would hurt to have someone I used to love& be intimate with telling me about his new girl - before the wounds have healed. he sounds inconsiderate. I think he should be more considerate of your feelings if he is the one who dumped you - have u thought about confronting about why he is behaving as he is????

follow your heart but be no man's doormat

Yep.

not if he puts on his insulated suit...

He's just feeling you out right now to see IF your cool with it? And then he'll jump right back in again with ya as soon as he feels its a good time to move on ya..
IF you want the fun,,with the shittttt,,then cool, go for IT!
But if you THINKING he may be a different person NOW,,PLEASE,,THAT ain't happening!
Let HIM WAIT,,and THINK,,,,for a LONG, LONG time,,,lol
Personally here,,,I have never known an ex to be anything but,,,an EX...... Hey but IF YOUR INTO PAIN,,,?
Good Luck with your choices to make....

Honestly he would not have left if it was you he wanted to be with! He was looking while he was with you before and if you take him back he will be looking still.

And when he finds another he will leave you hanging again.....

I may be wrong but no one knows but you what you want to do.. If you want to go back to him and try to make it work that is up to you. At times it works and other times it does not...

Do what makes you happy and will bring you closure...