I work full time, go to university and
I live on my own, my parents live far away from Windsor;
The girls at work say I'm cute but then again they are alot
Older then me and are married.
many girls smile at me at school or walking home but no one ever
Says anything to me, I just wanna find someone
To watch movies with and talk too. I'm way to shy
To even say hello but even if I did they'ed think
I was a weirdo everyone just says try go ahead
Try it's easy and even if she says "no" who cares,
But I would, u tell someone u like them and would
Do anything for them and they say "uh no thx",
That would hurt pretty bad.... So are you
suppose to just keep asking until u become
Immune and become a total jackass??... no thx

If you see girls smiling at you, why not act on it? Give a brief hello to them. Introduce yourself...then tell them you'll see them around sometime. That way, when they do see you again, they will say, "Hello (Your Name)". One...they were interested in you enough to say hello to you again. Two...they were interested in you enough to remember your name.

But that's a starter...you can make your move after that. But welcome to the site. Hope you find what you are looking for. There are great people in the forums. Join in...get your feet wet...you'll make new friends. You never know...you may find that special someone.

a picture would help

Also... you say you are shy. Try to be a bit aggressive. Wear a smile and say hello. If you are inviting, others are more comfortable with approaching you. Good luck!

I dunno still kinda chicken to post a picture,

It's hard to even say hello I guess I have
This weird thing in my mind that like
Who ever I would be talking to would be
Thinking in there head " leave me alone"
So why not just say nothing at all :/

Chicken to post a picture? Really? It could be a picture of anything. But do what feels comfortable. And it doesn't hurt to take a step in saying Hi. It's just...Hi.

Yea um... you have a couple of issues to address. You are on the site.. make a bit more effort and see the results.

I know how u feel Dirty cuz I feel the same way when it comes 2 talkin or approachin men. But pyxx is rt u r on this site n u need 2 give it a real chance so a pic of u wouldnt hurt. N who knows u might finally find sum1 u can watch movies with or talk 2. Im also hoping 2 find sum1 2 do those things with on this website. N on the journey 2 find that person u'll make new frnds but u have 2 take a chance an break out of that shell otherwise ur gonna end up alone.

Welcome.
If you are shy, it's a little hard to get started. But, believe me when I tell you there are some fantastic people here and you will feel more at ease soon. Don't be afraid of trying. Say hi, just talk a bit and you'll be ok.

Best of luck to you.

;( :'( :'( :'(

Hi my name is boone!!!!!! can we get to know each other??????

Lol silly..you pretty much know me here on the forums. But entertain me more!!!!

You need to have confidence in yourself and that you will get that yes. It takes ten no's sometimes to get a yes. The absolute worst thing they can say is no thank you. It's really not so bad.

Think about it this way you can practice here. Practice dialog with the married ladies at work. Find someone to role play with, it helps.

first, work on that self esteem

there is no need to be a jackass just because Each person you approach may not have a mutual interest, but there is no way around finding out if you dont ask

sea is right about getting through the nos to get a yes,,,,


and try not to tell someone the first time you approach them that you 'would do anything for them',,,I Think that would put off most females from someone they had never been out with before,,,