i don't care if a person is gay or straight, theres just something about bi that makes me ask why. it may make sense but we all have to make decisions every day and it seems to me that isn't making a decision.
as we go through life we have to decide things and we're older then i am we have to set there and look back at those decisions and we have to answer the question.

Want their cake & eat it too.

oldsage,
i didn't see it that way when i typed it but i do see the humor.
thanks

Some of my friends are gay. Some of my friends are monkeys. Some of my friends are gay monkeys. Personally, I prefer them to the stuffy anal retentive gents who think bananas are a fruit and accordions are for polkas.

I decided long ago that no matter what I was attracted to, I was going to be with a human woman, mostly because I wanted to be a day... thankfully during puberty it turned out I like Only Human Women, so it worked out perfectly.

I had to say Human there because of other issues this world kinda has sometimes...
JoshyFox





Bisexual or bicurious? Maybe - but no one I know?

If someone is bi or bicurious I say go for it...BUT I don't want to date you thanx...

yay! I have a shot with Native!

"But I don't want to date you ..thanx"

Native you're hilarious

I don't believe there really are bi people....sorry nope......what I do believe are there are some seriously messed up people trying to figure out what they like. I mean, basically any of us could be bisexual if we wanted to be. Its called sexual experimentation. Or maybe they are so horny they would **** just about anything...

Gay or straight, I believe there are but bi??? pffffft come on!!!

Hmm, I didnt know that all that many guys were "bi". I always thought that was more of a woman thing
I'm straight and well, I just cant see myself ever wanting anything other than a woman. I guess I'm just not a modern man LOL Oh well

since when has anyone chosen who they love??


bored chick ....if you were born with the genetic makeup to be homosexual you would be attracted to women...no matter how much you prayed to God to deliver you.

maybe you would not act on it, due to your beliefs...many have taken that route and prolly some have found a way to "BE" with it. i don't know.


but as far as i can see....love chooses us...we don't choose love.

so what happens if one day you are busy with your girlfriends and you meet someone that shakes every nerve and tingles every milimeter of your body and sends you into a state of mind that explodes with a joy and an energy and an inspiration that moves you ...that motivates you to be the very best of yourself???!!

and what if to your surprise and amazement you find you want to spend every moment with or near this person.... you take up the thread and weave them into your heart and into your life and THE PROCESS begins.

should you be condemmed in any way? or judged for the way love has manifested itself in your life??? ofcourse not.

not when it is not taking you or your actions into a truely deviant or immoral place.

you will most likely quote something to say that homosexuality is deviant and immoral...... but that is just an opinion and i don't accept it on any level. so you will be preaching to another choir if you play that card.

my point here is ....first of all people lie. and especially over who they have had sex with. men and women. and if someone knows it will kill their chances with you to be honest about something like that ....do you think they will enthusiastically give up this info???


doubt it.

i am asexual....in other words...i have no active sex life with anyone.
i have been celibate for 13 years. but i was bisexual before and i can't imagine a more natural and comfortable feeling than to know confidently that i am able to love anyone no matter what their sexual preference.

i love being attracted to women!!! women are amazing and outstanding and i can relate to them lol!!!

men ...are for me amusing, i can't take them seriously but i am attracted to them...heh heh..

i just love...and when you have lived and seen life in it's raw state ...not homogenized for your consumption.... you will respect the reality

that actually you have no control over love





(and that's a good thing!!)

Bl8ant,

I only 90% agree, but that was a great post. Well said.

wanna hear the 10% !!!


give it up!!

In all honesty, especially with the way my attitude was in the past, if I was attracted to men in anyway, I probably would've broken the silly promise with myself. I did make it when I was still young, innocent, and had no idea what Bisexual or Bicurious was. Like I said before though, I wound up liking the ladies, so the promise stands.

As it turns out I am also only attracted to humans... not to disappoint my sheep fans out there...

It would always bother me to be with a man if he had been with another guy. gay guys don't bother me.
I just don't want to even go there...
I think some women are sexy, I'm just not atracted to feeling them..
On another site that was something that really bothered me, was these guys that would have TG/TV/TS on their friends list.
HELLOOOO!!
whatz up with that when they say straight male.

Bl8ant, I don't 100% agree with anyone's overall summary/generalization of the relationship between genetics, early life experience, unconscious influences, and conscious choices. The matter is simply too complex, there are too many unknowns, and there is so much variation amongst individuals.

But your statements were a great counterpoint to some earlier (oversimplifying!) statements in this conversation. Some of the most authentic women I've known were bi. Your fleshed the conversation out well!

What happens behind closed doors is none of my business.
I LIKE ladies a lot, never felt anyother way.
Have family members that chose an alternative life style.
They are my family, I love them & God help those that would harm them. I could never be with another man.
I hope that my choice of ladies would never lead me to a lady who runs around, think I have better judgement than that.
Gay, Bi,Straight; be what you want, be proud, be safe.

old sage...that was perfect.



xxxxx

Thanks dear, hope your safe where your at.