what do you do when you miss someone?
is there really anything one can do to make it 'better?'

Not sure if you are referring to a lost one or a previous ex but for me I have found that anything I can do to take my mind off it, like hang out with friends, usually helps..another thing, if it's an ex, I try to think of the cons in our relationship it helps me realize we weren't meant for each other, though I would never vocalize those to anyone.

i'm talking about neither of those.
haha.
just someone you once talked to but no longer do.

Have you tried to talk to them recently? Maybe they feel the same way. I'm not really sure how to "feel better" since I have never been in this predicament.

no questions allowed.
D:

I believe you have the power to do what you need..however, If your pride gets in the way, it may prove to be more difficult. There are about three ppl I miss but my pride doesn't allow me to fold. Silly? yes..but I am the way I am.

ah,
yes.
pride.
i think a little of that is preventing me from talking to this person.
there are other reasons too though.
it's just a weird feeling i suppose.

I agree. Only YOU have the power to do what needs to be done.

I don't let pride stop me from doing what I want to do. I've called people that I've missed because I have wanted to talk to them. It doesn't matter to me who was at fault/to blame..if I wanted to talk to him/her or needed him/her, I would make the call. However if the person didn't accept my olive branch or rubbed it in my face..then I would not speak to them again. BUT it depends on the reason(s) why I stopped talking the that person in the first place! I have pride when it comes to cheating b/f's and maliciousness.

I won't allow pride to stop me from getting what I want.

so the only cure to missing someone is to go talk to them again?
hm.
'hey, i miss you.'
...awkward silence...
haha.

or...you could go missing yourself and see if anyone misses ya

Take another shot!

Try adjusting for windage this time.

i actually am.
haha.

arg.

Going crazy over someone just makes you look like a psycho.

And it won't bring him back.

i was crazy prior.

Then try duct tape and an unmarked van.

i'm opting for rope and a trunk.

I'm so sorry to hear that you're missing someone.

You have three choices.

1. Letting this person go. You hold this person dearly in your heart. Freeing your heart will allow another to forfill.

2. Contacting this person. Sometimes you can have unfinished business with another. Contact this person, and tell them everything that you feel.

3. Move on, and fondly put this person far away from your current thoughts and feelings. Remember the good times, and remember why you are no longer in contact with each other. Move on and enjoy the many wonders that life has in store for you.

what's the difference between one and three?
haha.

Well, number 1 is removing everything about this person from your thoughts and feelings. The same as forgeting.

And number 3 is just holding on to the good times, so you can reflect on those happy memories anytime you like, but you don't let these feelings get in the way of your everyday life. Also remembering why you are no longer in contact with this person can help rule out number 2