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Topic: Location Location..... would you move for a relationship?
ujGearhead's photo
Fri 12/23/11 10:14 PM

Since I'm retired and my kids are spread out (one in PA, one in Co. and 2 here, 2 gsons here but grown and a gdaughter in DC) I would move in a minute.. I don't care to move to Florida but would love to go back out west where the weather is milder in the winter...
And I hate driving in Pittsburg...its a crazy place! lol



shocked noway Other than all the potholes and maps being useless because of the constant construction, there's nothing wrong with driving in Pittsburgh! It's better than Ohio where all the roads look like driveways and all the driveways look like roads.

unsure's photo
Sat 12/24/11 06:30 AM
I have actually packed up before and moved 200 miles and moved my mother into her own place about 2 miles from me. Would I ever move again for a relationship, that is easy...NO WAY!!! I actually am very stable where I am and I actually love where I live.
My family is close enough that I can travel 4 hours and see them and just in case of problems, I like to keep it that way. My mother lives in the same town as I do and I check on her often...she will be 71 and I just lost my dad about 3 years ago, so I will always be there for my mom until I am no longer needed.
My mom is a wonderful lady :heart:

1SOPHIAIUX's photo
Sat 12/24/11 07:03 AM
glasses


I would! I have thought a lot about it.

For instance, I'd love to live near water: lake,ocean, river

Or

A big city!

I'm happy in Modesto! People are kind and neighbors sweet: family oriented people I know. Awesome single people and community.
Also, I think its has to do that I easily adapt. Easily for sure!

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Sat 12/24/11 11:04 AM
prolly no

Tessie_ID's photo
Sat 12/24/11 02:09 PM
Edited by Tessie_ID on Sat 12/24/11 02:09 PM
My kids are almost grown, so after the youngest is out (about 3 years) I want to move back out to the Northwest where I was born, raised and family still reside. So if I had someone special in my life and the kids are no longer my responsibility....yeah, I would move.

actionlynx's photo
Sat 12/24/11 04:24 PM
I would move, so long as I had the means and I felt comfortable about where I was moving to.

As it is, I already want to move out of this state. I am more of a country person than a city person. I doubt I could ever feel comfortable living in a city. As it is, I feel a little out of my element just visiting one. On the other hand, I like living where the population is sparser. From experience I know I generally like the people better, and I like the outdoors.

Even so, I don't want to be so far out in the boonies that I can't go to the city for a concert, a sporting event, or any other form of recreation that a city may offer. Basically, if I can drive to the city within a few hours, I'm good.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 12/24/11 05:04 PM
Nope, I have children here and their father is nearby so we can share custody. Plus, I have a good job and I doubt I could find something similar anywhere with the job market the way it is.

Tulareman's photo
Sun 12/25/11 12:15 AM
I don't think I would. I own this trailer I live in. The lot rent is cheap. And I love the small town of Tulare. Everything is close by for shopping. So. I am happy here. She would have to relocate.

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Sun 12/25/11 12:23 AM
At this point in my life, I'd have to say no due to circumstances. My son's mother lives here on the island and I want her to be a part of his life. I think that's important.

If that wasn't a factor, it would still be difficult for me to move. I like it here and have some roots, though being madly in love can make you do some crazy things



Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 12/25/11 02:38 AM
Edited by Shy_Emo_chick on Sun 12/25/11 02:43 AM
The only thing that would gaurantee i live far away from my current town, is me not wanting to stay in touch with my stepdad. He behaves like a playground bully. I hate how he taunts my two younger stepsisters. He should know better. He thinks he's acting normal. Just who is he fooling? Just himself really. I'd be like "Look, i really do love you mum, but i can't be around him anymore". I'd give her my email address. I'd better not think about it, or i'll end up doing it.

Kleisto's photo
Sun 12/25/11 02:57 AM

The only thing that would gaurantee i live far away from my current town, is me not wanting to stay in touch with my stepdad. He behaves like a playground bully. I hate how he taunts my two younger stepsisters. He should know better. He thinks he's acting normal. Just who is he fooling? Just himself really. I'd be like "Look, i really do love you mum, but i can't be around him anymore". I'd give her my email address. I'd better not think about it, or i'll end up doing it.


Sometimes emo, you gotta do what's best for you. If you need to get away, maybe you should. You deserve some peace of mind and of spirit after all.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 12/25/11 04:36 AM
Edited by Shy_Emo_chick on Sun 12/25/11 04:37 AM
@ Kleisto, That would mean me staying in a hotel. It's not that easy thinking about leaving my two younger stepsisters behind, if anything. I'd do anything for them both. I'd walk to the ends of the earth for them. But, yeah, he's a force to be reckoned with. Don't understand why mum likes him really. Most of my family always tell me they don't like him, too, so it kinda figures. Idk how realistic it would be to just take off. I suppose he's like a barrier. If any of us wanna talk to my mum, he always has to tell her off just for having a life. He even tells her off for having a day out shopping. She can't win.

Kleisto's photo
Sun 12/25/11 04:49 AM

@ Kleisto, That would mean me staying in a hotel. It's not that easy thinking about leaving my two younger stepsisters behind, if anything. I'd do anything for them both. I'd walk to the ends of the earth for them. But, yeah, he's a force to be reckoned with. Don't understand why mum likes him really. Most of my family always tell me they don't like him, too, so it kinda figures. Idk how realistic it would be to just take off. I suppose he's like a barrier. If any of us wanna talk to my mum, he always has to tell her off just for having a life. He even tells her off for having a day out shopping. She can't win.


Have you tried to voice your concerns to her? How does she take it if so?

no photo
Sun 12/25/11 06:44 AM
Im not attached to my location at all, apart from work, but I can find that anywhere. I would move in the bat of an eye...

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