Topic: Am I wife material?
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Tue 10/25/11 04:21 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Tue 10/25/11 04:22 PM
It would depend on what men want but this is what I feel good wife material is:

1. You can have children and you want children.
2. You are nurturing and like to cook and clean house.
3. You like sex and give blow jobs.
4. Its not all about you and you let your man be himself.

Now if you are all of that this is what you should be looking for:

1. A man who wants children and a wife.
2. A man who has a good job and can buy you a house.
3. A man who is good in the sack.
4. A man who appreciates you.




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Tue 10/25/11 06:41 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Tue 10/25/11 06:41 PM



U r beautiful...take ur time....u have plenty....
laugh in otherwords "no"

Nope....not true at all.....she is beautiful....I just think she shouldnt rush into anything....with just ANYONE....and yes she is def marriage material....


from your perspective I would tend to agree - I was married at her age so I guess I just forget how much longer people wait these days

yes - she is an attractive woman, but I wonder - what are the ingredients that make a "good wife?"

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Tue 10/25/11 07:01 PM
Edited by wux on Tue 10/25/11 07:02 PM

If you can get me pregnant.....I will marry you.

Unless you can find someone more qualified to settle the issue of the above conditional, I'm willing to test the waters for you, Krupa and OP.

:=) "Mark twain."

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Tue 10/25/11 08:46 PM
YOUR BEAUTIFUL,,,Great SHAPE,,,VERY SEXY,,,,Eyes that TAKE YOU AWAY


So,,,,NO,,,YOUR NOT WIFE MATERIAL,,,,,













WELL,,let me explainmy thoughts.

Because of all that I said above here about you..

AND,,beacause YOU asked THIS here NOW..


GUYS SHALL BE COMING OUT OF THEIR CLOSETS WITH PLAYBOY MAGS IN HAND
SAYING THEY WANT TO MARRY YOU!!

SO,,,,DON'T THINK THAT WAY,,,because they will just hurt you,,by telling you everything cool and sweet,,,JUST TO GET YA IN BED.
Then,,,,,,BYE,,


SO,,would YOU make a great wife---HELL YES!

BUT,,to WANT is EASY,,,To KNOW takes TIME.

To LIVE takes YOU NOT LOOKING!

And just let LOVE find you when your feeling THAT in your heart,,because of what someone there with you,,,Just DONE,,OR SAID,,or ACTED ON,,for the beauty of DOING THAT,,JUST FOR YOU!

Love and being a life partner with another person is something you can only find,,,,WHEN YOU FIND ALL OF THEM,,INSIDE YOUR MIND, HEART,SOUL,,AND PANTS,,,,laugh :heart:

You will make SOMEONE ,,a VERY BEAUTIFUL WIFE,,,when some DUDE,,shows YOU A BEAUTIFUL MAN...flowerforyou drinker

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Tue 10/25/11 09:15 PM
Your a beautiful girl. But you might want to fill out you profile a bit more. Give them something to piques their interest, so they want to talk to you and get to know you.
Good Luck, and don;t worry about getting married. YOu have PLENTY of time.

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Tue 10/25/11 10:58 PM
Pretty yes; marriage material no. If you are 21 already with a couple of kids and are saying you want to get married THEN settle down from being a fun girl I would not see you as a good bet.

Marriage material would be a responsible stable Woman, possibly a homeowner as a mother of two children. Someone who has demonstrated a focus of selflessness, committment, responsibility, shareing, and establishing lasting relationships in the community belonging possibly to a church, youth organization, charity, or business association. I see no photos with friends or family, no evidence of car ownership, no reference to schooling or career. No mention of homemaker skills. No explanation of what you want in a man except someone who "accepts your kiddos" whatever that means. Don't they have a father in their life?

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Fri 10/28/11 07:06 PM
May I ask why you want to get married?

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Sun 10/30/11 01:47 PM
You are very attractive, I am sure you will find the right guy to marry,so hang in there. I am 2 time loser (married twice)but I will probably do it agin....:)

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Sun 10/30/11 04:32 PM

So I've been wanting to get married and settle down since I was 18. I just turned 21. I would like to know if I look like the type of girl you'd marry


yep

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Sun 10/30/11 05:26 PM
Hey, I just read your profile...

...looking for "someone who would find an interest in your kiddos"???? surprised

shocked I'm not questioning your wisdom but are you sure thats its a good thing to say that? sick Actually, I am questioning it just a little, I would change that. Or remove it completely. Say your a single mom of two and leave it there. Too many freaks around, you know what I'm saying...

This is the internet slaphead
noway

I'd marry you...but my heart belongs to another...:laughing:
...and I'd look like your dad :laughing:

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Mon 10/31/11 02:51 PM
You are a beautiful girl! Do you feel like you are ready to settle down? You know in your heart if you are ready or not. Take your time you are young still.

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Mon 10/31/11 02:55 PM

So I've been wanting to get married and settle down since I was 18. I just turned 21. I would like to know if I look like the type of girl you'd marry


Welcome.

And I am sure no man worth his salt could tell you that from the little information that is available to him on this site.

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Mon 10/31/11 03:56 PM
Edited by rambill79 on Mon 10/31/11 04:00 PM
you are very attractive and young, which is good of course... your main pic looks a bit "urban"... but the rest are really nice... so yes i would marry you. of course i would want to test drive the equipment first... lol


the math: your breathing...
+ your pretty....
+you can actually read and write...
+ apparently you are quite humble.....
+ and you must put out cause you have a kid.....
= worthy of further study.


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Mon 10/31/11 04:02 PM


So I've been wanting to get married and settle down since I was 18. I just turned 21. I would like to know if I look like the type of girl you'd marry


Welcome.

And I am sure no man worth his salt could tell you that from the little information that is available to him on this site.

to the unobservant mabe

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Mon 10/31/11 04:17 PM
impossible to tell, but it doesn’t really matter what any of us say, because anyone can be married, from queens to crack-heads and everyone in between.

what I wonder is, what makes you ask this in the first place?

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Mon 10/31/11 04:24 PM



So I've been wanting to get married and settle down since I was 18. I just turned 21. I would like to know if I look like the type of girl you'd marry


Welcome.

And I am sure no man worth his salt could tell you that from the little information that is available to him on this site.

to the unobservant mabe


Or shallow? Who wouldn't care who she is just that she looks a certain way?

"Marriage material" is the terminology usually used by women to describe women of a certain "calibre" that are "good girls", look good, subservient and are relationship oriented instead of being "selfish" and wanting a career. Just repeating what I learned from other women here, definitely not my opinion at any level.

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Mon 10/31/11 05:17 PM
Edited by rambill79 on Mon 10/31/11 05:26 PM
I would ask a MAN what marriage material is. since women could only theorize on such a subject.. The earlier checklist mentioned plus a few more like "Is she actually single?" ,Is she intelligent, preferably more than me?, Is she hi or low budget, i.e. does she contribute money or spend all of mine? Is she ambitious or a lump? Is she fun to be around? and "Do i find her attractive?, and What does her mother look like?, are some of the top questions i would ask in no particular order except the last two are first, ... but thats just me.

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Mon 10/31/11 05:29 PM
P.S. WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN looking good, i am shallow as a puddle...and /or picky

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Mon 10/31/11 06:05 PM

marriage is overrated! lol
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mabe for you "madam" but its what SHE wants. I am more on your side of that fence though

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Mon 10/31/11 06:14 PM

I would ask a MAN what marriage material is. since women could only theorize on such a subject.. The earlier checklist mentioned plus a few more like "Is she actually single?" ,Is she intelligent, preferably more than me?, Is she hi or low budget, i.e. does she contribute money or spend all of mine? Is she ambitious or a lump? Is she fun to be around? and "Do i find her attractive?, and What does her mother look like?, are some of the top questions i would ask in no particular order except the last two are first, ... but thats just me.



Maybe the woman wants to marry a woman, why ask a man?

Also he doesn't govern what "marriage" material is for all men, just himself. Women have tried to instruct young ladies on the basics.

What makes a man marriage material?