I suppose this is the right section to do this. XD I don't have much luck on these sites. So feel free to rate and tell me whats wrong perhaps. most girls on many of these dating sites don't even give me the time of day or even click to view my profile. :/

buongiorno. there is nothing wrong with filling out profile information and waiting for a lady to contact you. thing is i'm sure you will need a snicker bar or two because you're gonna be here awhile. you might find it to your benefit to be a bit more aggressive. take a look at the forums, find a topic that interests you and show the ladies how your mind ticks. or start a thread of your own and meet and greet the ladies as they post. in bocca al lupo

The more photos you have of yourself the better. I have been a member for 3 days or so and have received quite a few messages. In your profile make sure you fill in as much as possible, as well.

thank you esebulldog. XD and ive tried that. i have many pictures, and i filled out as much as possible. girls look at my profile. judge me and they dont even bother to message back if i have messaged them. ive gotten 0 messages and ive been on here for about 2 months. kinda depressing. :/

Hello Mr Love:
Give it time...I don't think the profile is bad. But realize the pics put you in the category of non-mainstream. Which is perfectly fine....but not everyone will be into that. As for who you have messaged, consider: 1. distance 2. their interests 3. how often they are on the site/checking email.

But one thing I've learned on this site is that it is good to get involved in forums. That really helps to get you noticed, your personality can come out, people will write testimonials, etc.

I wish you the best of luck!!!

thanks karma, i know i have weird sense of style, but its who i am. alot of the girls ive messaged not only on this site but on other sites usually are around me, and generally i look for ones that are somewhat active on the site. XD i sometimes don't think its fair to judge on my interests though unless we completely have nothing at all in common. im not that hard to get along with honestly and im into many things. ive had a terrible reign of luck with these sites..time given of course. :/ but thank you nonetheless for the advice. :)