Topic: LDR - Still possible?
PacificStar48's photo
Sat 11/26/11 10:01 PM




I'm not sure if this will still work ...
I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink.

For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him.

Is it still possible to meet the One on here? what


Possible, but not that likely on the free sites. The subscription only sites seem to attract people who are really serious. The free ones tend to be full of flakey types and scammers.


Not true. I joined match.com and it's been a waste of money. Not a single wink, like, email, nothing... I know I'm not the best looking, most attractive, sweap you off your feet guy. BUT I do know i am funny careing and I'm not ugly. Average, so either I'm doing something wrong and i dont notice it, or its a fraud/waste.


Interesting! I learn something new everyday. Thanks. drinker


I found Match.com had a lot of professional men who were looking for "substitute" wives to travel with them and because they had the money could even keep seperate addresses and phone lines so not to get tripped up. Also seemed like there were a lot of bogus profiles that would write to keep members paying but were just never quite available.

jrbogie's photo
Sun 11/27/11 03:54 AM
since retiring i've lived and traveled the country in my rv so i can turn a long distance relationship into a close by relationship in a matter of days.

skywisper's photo
Sun 11/27/11 04:26 AM


WHY DOES IT HAVE TOO BE IRL?.


Cuz you can't be together without IRL duuh! tongue2
Hahahaha let me put it to in a different way,what is irl?.

jerrel010's photo
Sun 11/27/11 04:50 AM
Girlss. Im waiting foru x

jerrel010's photo
Sun 11/27/11 04:53 AM
Im still possible if youre hot hihi

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Sun 11/27/11 07:57 AM



WHY DOES IT HAVE TOO BE IRL?.


Cuz you can't be together without IRL duuh! tongue2
Hahahaha let me put it to in a different way,what is irl?.


IRL = In Real Life, dude! :thumbsup:

boonedoggy61's photo
Sun 11/27/11 07:59 AM
Thank you....

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 11/27/11 08:00 AM


Is it still possible to meet the One on here? what



Anything is possible. It's the probability you gotta worry about.

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Sun 11/27/11 08:18 AM



Is it still possible to meet the One on here? what



Anything is possible. It's the probability you gotta worry about.


Uhuh, now I guess we need to conduct a feasibility study first.

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 11/27/11 04:21 PM
You could probably go into the success stories section. . .

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Sun 11/27/11 06:27 PM

You could probably go into the success stories section. . .


Only if someone declares the first Mingle2 online wedding!

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Mon 12/05/11 10:01 AM

Yes, LDR is possible, well for the third time LOL.

Me and him have been constantly communicating since he messed up with this thread tongue2

seductivexangel's photo
Tue 12/06/11 08:50 PM
Yeah.right!

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/07/11 06:01 AM


Yes, LDR is possible, well for the third time LOL.

Me and him have been constantly communicating since he messed up with this thread tongue2


:thumbsup:

luv2roknroll's photo
Wed 12/07/11 11:10 AM



I have no blind trust - never happen

and my patience doesn't factor in with this topic

it;s something I am just not interested in


so

once again

no


but best wishes to those who are into it!
whoa


have u been feeling OK? u look a little pale in that photo - hope u r ok
You just have that effect on me,

thats all.flowerforyou

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Fri 12/16/11 09:34 AM
i think if the two parties agree to it it will work i know some that have done the LDR an it worked for them so far i tired it once it dind't really work out that well but i know others who have

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Fri 12/16/11 11:19 AM
Can I just ask...has anyone ever done a LDR without having met your 'significant' other? Would you consider that a relationship?

Taking into account finances and geography etc, how long would you wait before meeting?

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Fri 12/16/11 07:37 PM

Can I just ask...has anyone ever done a LDR without having met your 'significant' other? Would you consider that a relationship?

Taking into account finances and geography etc, how long would you wait before meeting?


Once an LDR is established you will know if he/she is the significant other, well if you are sensitive enough LOL. On my part I learned one thing from my past LDRs - trust, dont ASSume smile2

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Fri 12/16/11 07:39 PM

Im still possible if youre hot hihi


gee that's exciting news

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/16/11 07:45 PM



Is it still possible to meet the One on here? what



I hope so.