Whatever you say. All I'm after is stopping the spread of ignorance that people seem to prefer to find refuge in. If there was any knowledge applied in bhernandez's posts, she'd recognize that simply because of her gender she's bound to receive five times more messaging minimum on any online dating site compared to men.

Yes that is statistically correct

oh the relevance.

Naw, couldn't be. After all, I'm a man, I'm wrong on all fronts to begin with.

The relevance speaks for itself. Guys can sit and write 20 different messages to 20 different girls, only to find that most don't even bother reading, or delete, and if the guy's lucky, he'll find one response out of it. A girl shows cleavage in a picture, bang, done deal.

Any comment a girl makes about "not being able to find a guy" purposefully leaves out that she's receiving email, yet she censors the men that she'll allow to converse with her at all.

Is that all I am to you? Just 'the poster who said' ?

all i read are complaints.
females get more messages.
suck it up.
the end.

The fact you ignore any outside site I've posted shows you know I'm right.

and what the **** are you right about?

bhernandez=reading fail.

Simone wrote:







BH wrote:



Weird! I had just typed "Okay, so you are right... about what, exactly?"


Edit: I think the devil's in the phrasing... its tricky to express a generalization, and keeps it in perspective.

i have no problems with reading comprehension.
i've never had any luck with stupid people though.
sadness.

I'm sorry. You know you mean the world to me .

That's better.



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BH wrote:


I think I found it:

Jim wrote: "women like to complain whenever there's an offer and have no clue what they want in regards to any relations with the opposite sex."

I think you are bang on not to date friends of the guy you are in a
relationship with emotionally.

Also not dating from the office...it is nsfw.



You hate dating. I say don't date.

Those posting here who are saying do volunteering or other social
or intellectual activity are barking up the right tree. I never
really dated per se. I met my female friends in all manner of other
ways. Usually sports for me but also online and at clubs or hobbies
or classes. If the attraction was there then we would go for
coffee, lunch and dinner and do other fun activities as friends
and then before we knew it we were dating...and by then open
sexuality and seduction was certainly expected with heightened
anticipation from both of us mutually. And I could not prevent her
from having her way with me.

But it always started not dating.

haha.
back to square one.
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I don't know about most women, but I know within the first five minutes whether or not I would have sex with a guy I just met, if not sooner. It would be instant chemistry.

Actual dating is just to find out of I can stand him as a person. LOL.

I guess I've been through the dating game enough by now, and who has the time for the game?

If a guy is intellectually interesting, a good friend etc. I will spend time with him as a friend. That means I will not expect him to pay for stuff. Just like any other friend, if he pays this time, I'll pay next time or we will go dutch... as friends.

I won't lead a guy on. If I know I am not interested in sex, and he thinks that's still on the table I will let him know. If I am interested in sex, he will know about it. He won't have to guess.

99% of the time, I find no interesting men that appeal to me. I live in a small town and don't really look for them, and don't make any effort to attract them. I'm also pretty busy.

That your in absolute denial of the fact that about 50% of threads we see hitting the dating and relationships forum here are posters sharing problems they're having dating, or sorting out their partners. That should be an indicator alone that not all is right with the dating scene.

But yet you press on, "no, just because you share opinions doesn't make it fact."

There ARE posters that have difficulties similar to mine that have not gotten involved.

You sound like an Obama supporter: "hey, we made it from an active economy to a stagnant economy; thats 'change' indeed!!"

I shared happierabroad.com with you. Yet STILL that went over your head.

So really, if your going to be ignorant, then it really doesn't help to post information for you to learn anything. Because it really seems like out of all of us that you must have the most perfect relationships ever.

Let me guess... you're a nice guy, too?

There are many guys here who send emails and get responses. If you're not getting what you're looking for, change your approach.

No one here owes anyone anything. We've all sent email that hasn't been responded to. And just because a woman is receiving email, it doesn't automatically mean that she's going to find the right guy that way.