Hi Ladies,

I know how you all love a good hearty challange so heres one for you..
No photo.. Just my personality to go by...

See if you can put your money where your mouth is and show me you dont go on looks.. Like most of you say ;)

Let's see how well you get on talking to me...

I don't know how many ladies wrote to you, buy by the response to this post, probably not many. First off, not many women that I know of want a challange when meeting a guy. Not many that I know of want to start a relationship playing games. I am sure that there are some, but do ya really want to be with someone for the rest of your life thats a championship playa. You might, I do not know.

Now before you jump all over me and my comments, I meet my fiance Rick on here. He had no photo and against my better judgement I answered his first email. Why? After meeting guys without photos and they were not who they said they were, I was leary. But, He was kind, non threating, non judgemental and very respectfull. To this day I miss him and wish with all my heart he did not die.

I wish you all the best with what you are searching for here on Mingle.

You're not actually showing much of what I'm sure is a great personality matey!

Takes two to tango as well as start a conversation and you haven't actually given any 'ladies' anything by way of one.

It's not always about looks. It's about you being honest about yourself from the beginning. That includes sharing pictures. Those who do not share pictures are generally hiding something or are not confident in themselves.

So, how's this going?

Umm i dont know what to say to that other than it made me feel kinda depressed..

hope you're ok..?

Perhaps..

I'm just waiting for something to happen..
when it feels right im sure i will show up :)

You can see for yourself lol...

Not very well..

Try a different approach, then. Be completely honest, including showing a picture. That always works better.

Tony. First of all you give nothing to go by. You need to have something on your profile to draw attention. You have almost nothing written for someone to find interesting.

"Interests: Music, Travel, Cooking, Nature
Nice guy looking for fun!
Profession: Musician"

This is it. Sorry But if you found the same thing on a females profile -- how interested would you be? Photos are nice, because its nice to have a clue who you are contacting.
Look around and when you see profiles you like, note what you liked about it. The possibly put a little bit of effort into your profile.

I'm sure you're a great guy...tell me something about yourself that isn't in your profile?