i have this old freaken ex bf
from 13yrs ago and 4yrs prior from that
so a total were together about 4yrs

he left me a dang message on my house phone
stating about getting into a close relationship again

which is never going to happen
but any ways

i noticed something very strange about his cell phone
which i would like one of you, if can explain

im guessing he has 2 cells
for the number i origanlly had was a salem oregon number
well today when he called
it shows up as new mexcio

i know he can be such a idiot and secertive
but why 2 freaken cell phones from 2 differnt places

he can pick any area code he wants

with magic jack YES
but with cell phone no

Does it make any difference?

Why ask why?..just drink beer (get drunk)..remember those budweiser commercials...so silly...sorry..that's all that came to mind..

if you knew this guy
he would be on your nerves in nothing flat
i got used to it when we were together
but his ego problem
just got worse over time
and it still the same
saw him for a brief the other day
and he hasent freaken changed
and NEVER WILL

he so secertive
when we were together he was working late
i decided to snoop in this bag he had with his paper work
i knew he was married 1time before and i met her by accedent
they had been divorced yrs before
well i came across some info he had been married 2x
nice to know that i wasent ever told about the 2nd wife
i found the divorce papers on that one
aparently he divorced her
and his 1st wife divorced him
if you had a feeling something wasent right wouldnt you do
the same and get a little nosey

It sounds like after 13 years he is still in your life and you're playing with fire.

I would have blocked him, changed my number and wouldn't give a crap about what he does with whom as long as he stays away from me.

i have actually known him longer
and no hes not in my life
if he was he would be here all the time(smuthering me)
and NO HES NOT!!!!!


how can i block him
you mean block his freaken head off....LOL

he doesnt have a computer to my knowledge
and he doesnt know my email

OMG you made me laugh so hard with "block his freaken head off".
I thought you said he called your home with two different phone numbers.

Can’t you block both numbers from your land line or tell him to leave you alone? Am I wrong? I thought phone companies blocked numbers when requested.

i think you can
but then if he cant get through
he still would show up

Would that be considered harassment? Or is that acceptable to you?

actually i would think
that would be considered harassment
its not stalking

when he i were together many moons back
the neighbor was at the mall
well he happen to be there
and she didnt like his actions
she went to leave. so did he
he
she pulled out of the parking lot
so did he
she drove home and he was right behind her
he was following her every where she was going
she didnt get a good feeling
her bf wasent happy about it
and i heard later he actually told him off