Married, i guess

It all depends.am havin d same prblm.am based in uae.am in need of a woman 4rm any race 4 datin.am a caring nd honest prsn.

Some of us have been burned and reburned so many times that the decency has been worn away. We become cautious. On top of that men are not the only ones who play stupid head games.

Now as far as decent men "my age" go. We are out there but the question is WHERE ARE ALL THE DECENT WOMEN OUT THERE? I can't seem to find any yet but then again I got high standards.

Like Prospecting, you need to search long and hard in some rough country where others have not been to strike gold!

That and love is a battlefield. And to the fellow in the UAE, GOOD LUCK. You are in Ismalic teritory my friend. Any self respecting and intelligent woman knows to stay away from a place she is legally property, not a person. That is a subject for a whole different topic.

Miss Charmed Girl,
I will pass, for the moment, on the opportunity to vent my own frustrations and I will instead answer your question at face value.

So where are you looking?

If Capetown is like the USA, many people are uncomfortable left in their own thoughts and seek distractions in the form of television, internet, or other solitary endeavors. Those who join a club or volunteer at the hospital, etc. may have better luck finding a decent guy or girl. But if there's some secret to finding a great girl or to starting a relationship... well, I'll let you know when I discover it.

T

Having been burned and reburned myself, it does get harder not to take it out on the next person - not being prepared to make allowances for small things like if the guy doesn't text you back immediately or something silly like that.

My friend says that we live in a microwave society whereby if something isn't ready in 3 minutes, we move on because (we think that) there's so much choice..and really there isn't

i believe that there is a good man left for me out there somewhere far far far away lol....but his there looking for me to....

i have searched in all the wrong places and i think i should change my compass in another direction lol

I meet fairly decent guys everywhere. I think it's all in your attitude. I think if you act decent, you tend to attract decent. Not that some jerks aren't around. Nice guys usually don't walk up to jerky chicks.

right one friend,...females are the best at mind f**ks.

you talk about looking but the more important question is what are you offering?