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no, you are not being stupid. four years is plenty of time for a man to save enough money for a trip. you just need to do a little more investigating as to why this dude is still sitting with his thumb up his butt. a man lucky enough to meet a woman as wonderful as you should have a strong desire to do whatever it takes to be with you also true could be he is married the usual reason for online disappearance acts.... I actually have no problems with his marital status, I have checked it since we first talked here lol. Have talked to his Mom who lives with him, and we been communicating day and night for 4 years. May be it's all money thing, but still I am hoping he could make it here before this current year ends, otherwise it's time to MOVE ON! Cheers! |
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Awww I really hope he is able to save enough to make a trip to come
visit you! Where there is a will there's a way! 
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to expect you to carry that load financially is ungentleman-like - especially when it is his responsibility to meet what he is responsible for in a relationship. He needs to man up and do the right thing - sounds like you are getting scammed I understand his financial situation, he wanted to come too but he lacks resources yet. But for 4 years I've been expecting some progress and I guess I'm ending up frustrated so I tried my luck on that visa thing, and yeah in my own expense - am I being stupid? 
So be careful,,,,and be aware,,MANY PLAY,,,and even over four years of emails,,,he could be married,,or many things,,,as well as real with caring about you,,,but NO ONE DOES FOUR YEARS APART,,unless IN JAIL,,,lol because thats just wrong to be in for so long with never meeting each other yet?,,My thoughts anyway,,,I wish you safe travel and much good luck,,, |
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I can't talk for him,,,BUT,,IF I was this dude,,and I was all about you for four years,,and you spoke of coming to try and see me,,,I would be doing whatever I had to do to make THAT work,,like saving money just for you to not have to spend all of yours and making sure the dates and times so I could be there when you arrived,,,IF he has not tried or given THAT any thoughts to make happen,,,THEN,,I would question his real heart?,,,For if it was me at his age and all,,I KNOW I could take a job on a boat that went to you,,IF I was really inlove with you or felt,,that YOU just were the one...? So be careful,,,,and be aware,,MANY PLAY,,,and even over four years of emails,,,he could be married,,or many things,,,as well as real with caring about you,,,but NO ONE DOES FOUR YEARS APART,,unless IN JAIL,,,lol because thats just wrong to be in for so long with never meeting each other yet?,,My thoughts anyway,,,I wish you safe travel and much good luck,,, I can't help it - just by reading your words, it makes me cry now  and I come to realize that you may be right. I have spent time, phone cards (hundreds of them now), even effort to take a visa fortune all for the purpose of seeing him. Yeah, sometimes I question his real feelings, I thought that he would take my patience into consideration but sadly I feel that he just took me for granted.
Thanks for your kind words, I really appreciate it - may be I am just TOO good for him? 
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Deep down, you already know the answer…just like I did when I posted a similar question on here. The only difference is, I only wasted three weeks of my life. You’ve wasted four, precious years.
Listen to your inner voice and stop making excuses for him. He doesn’t deserve you! |
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