This happened to me so beware!

1-Stops you kissing cheek.

2-Stops you visiting her parents.

3-Stops going out with you as ‘friends’ will do. Stays out till 1-2am. Came home by taxi.

4-Stops drinking with you.

5-Says she is bored.

6-Says don’t you feel awkward doing this? Ref to lovemaking.

7-Stops lovemaking.

8-Says we have nothing in common.

9-No offer to pay bills.

10-Acts suspiciously.

11-Starts running down food supply.

12-Starts sorting bedroom.

13-Leaves for new man.

14-Then you discover she lied about you to friends, family etc.

Note-Steps 1-9 took 5 years.

Note-Steps 10-13 took 4 weeks.

I think 6,8 and 13 are pretty HUGE HINTS....

Have you always wore a beard?

#3 would have been the neon sign blazing for me to see. that sucks...

Then there is the "Working late" and taking phone calls in another room!!!

thanks. noted

accuses you of cheating when he is in reality
here a good one with proof
i had a friend stay with us for she was having issue in her marriage
and i was pg with our son
that nite he was trying to get down her pants and she was up all nite trying to avoid him
she had a class she had to go to the next morning so she called me later and while i was on the phone with her
she told me and i confronted him and he made this smurking laugh and totally denied it
i told him plain out that i belive her more than i did him
for i knew what he was about
and i knew she wouldnt lie

*Suddenly changes all his passwords on the computer and erases the history.
*Seems to take alot of phone calls out of the room (and earshot)
*Erases history on his phone of phone calls and texts.
*Suddenly needs time alone (to think)
*Suddenly develops a hobby that he wants to do without you if you express interest.
*Freaks out if you show up at his work unexpectedly (even if its to bring him a special lunch or take him out)
* Wants to go to his high school reunion alone (because noone else spouse is going) "YEAH RIIIIIIIGGGHHT"
*Says we spend too much time together, even if you never see eachother.

I know these well, been there three times (2 ex husbnads and one long term boyfriend)

If your intuition tells you something isn't right-- TRUST IT!!

Thanks to all. Wish I had joined ages ago. Had I done this, posted these signs, friends here would have told me what was going on.

Oh well, silly me...