well, you wrote earlier it is a hypothetical situation. so in that case it doesn't really matter.

In regards to sincerity, of course it would be nice if people were upfront more often. I think people reveal what they want when they are ready for it. after all, your profile picture is a cat. just saying. you know?

keen observation young lady, as you can l'm a sort of kitten, l don't know which is the life sense.... really every day is a little story in it self... but l believe that the best way to go throw all those little pieces of our life is........ do it with a woman...


l hope to be able to give the right sense in my sentence.....do it with a woman l mean walking together hand in hand in the life-path
and sometimes have ...........a dance

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Km1C-Xcpqg8&feature=related

well, a deceitful person is no prize, whatever they are being deceitful about

but I always wondered at what point does certain personal information need to be shared

if someone assumes something about you, and you know they do, you should probably correct that

but what if you dont want to assume what they are assuming, how personal do you get if you are not at a point where things are going to get intimate (hopefully , it wouldnt be intimate on a first date)...?


when do you share how many partners you have had, how many children you have, what illnesses you have, what equipment you were born with , what equipment you have had changed,,,etc,,,?

you 'r right there is a kind of point of break sharing personal info, by the way ...................l need to know if she is a lady without surprise among her legs

I understand your concern/fear but what you fail to recognize is that the identities of women who are born with a penis or men born with a vagina are not determined by what's between their leg. It is offensive to refer to their identities based on biological factors alone. Transsexuals don't wake up one morning and say who can I deceit today. Straight or gay people will never understand what they are going through until it happens to them.

Between the legs is never a good way to get to know someone.

i would post a thread and ask others what they would do

it could be the first step to a friend-ship...........come on l'm joking, anyway yeah we need to trust in the others

yeah man....l suggest ....do it

I'm not upset. Just talking. :) What is the first step to a friendship?

sex at the first time is a good way to know a person, but as you can this is not a rule

very good point ..........but l always reccomend.....be carefull the trick is around the corner

I don't understand what you're saying. You said "That is the first step to a relationship." What is the first to a relationship?

hmmm **** it

Depending on how far the encounter went, if it crossed physical boundaries, i would more than likely after a sequence of emotions eventually become aggressive and physically violent. Not a politically correct answer i know, not proud of it, don't condone it but that's how i feel. In regards to a persons deep seeded personal beliefs and core values there are some lines that shouldn't be knowingly crossed. This be one. Everybody has some beliefs they hold high enough that are in their perspective worth fighting for. If someone blatantly disrespects those beliefs (or violates some one else physical self) by means of force or deception intentionally they do so at their own peril.

well anyone l mean every human being idealize his/her ideal match, more info you get about he or she more probability you get to perform the relation..........for love or just for friend, but as you can exist an invisible private border line sure everyone must respect this line ..........it seems a paradoxal situation.

a question rise up : how is possible a good relationship without to know his or her intimate affair?

the first step to get a relation is ..........to know.... building in your mind the partner mimagine, l'm not saying ...be a detectve, but l must know who is my companion

hey man l speak a broken English, what do you mean xxxx it?? you are going to have sex with him??

yeah to be honest is the key to avoid a lot of risk

but sometimes you don't know if you want love or friendship right away, so you have to first get to know someone before you know more about the person. Also, getting to know someone takes time. Sometimes months or years.

true l like your thougts, a deep sense of spirituality is in you, sometimes in our life we need to listen a friendly voice is not important where it come, it's just like to contact a piece of an immense cosmic soul.............without conditions without rule........just to talk


l'm very glad to talk with you, an emotive person is a special soul


l call it soul but spirit or ability to contact the invisible dimension is just the same, we are made of two elements materia and an invisible force, my body is here my mind is just over the ocean