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@SilentlyScreaming you've been around here for a little more than 4yrs, what has ur experience been like? well... i made tons of friends... i met someone, got engaged, moved out of state to be with him, and he treated me like crap, so i left... then came back and made more great friends... |
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Edited by
SilentlyScreaming
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twitchy fingers lol
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Hmmmm i dont think i would be doing anyone a favour, i really wouldnt care where he came from or what race he was, as long as I loved him I would work it out, no favours just a relationship.
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@SilentlyScreaming you've been around here for a little more than 4yrs, what has ur experience been like? well... i made tons of friends... i met someone, got engaged, moved out of state to be with him, and he treated me like crap, so i left... then came back and made more great friends... Oh dear, that's not a good one to hear. I hope you'll get someone that'll know your worth, crave for you, treat you right and wouldn't want to see you go. Because some people don't just know what they want |
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Hear we go again, now're talking about feelings, but u talked about distance at first, isn't that contradictory? Because it is impractical to try and carry on a relationship over long distances (my opinion). In any relationship quality time is found within a quantity of time and if the distance is to far lots of time together is near impossible. I do believe in spending quality time together in a relationship, but what about the soldiers in the UN's troops that're presently fighting in Libya, Afganistan, etc. What should their spouses' do? Or sailors on the sea sailing around the world or professions that create little or no time for one's personal life. I have a friend, she's a Child care worker, she works in DC but lives in Virginia. Everyday she works for long hours and doesn't return home till weekend, and this is her regular routine. In as much as i believe in spending quality time together, i think a good relationship needs sacrifice,understanding and trust |
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Hmmmm i dont think i would be doing anyone a favour, i really wouldnt care where he came from or what race he was, as long as I loved him I would work it out, no favours just a relationship.
I like your kind of person, you believe in love, no matter what it'd cost you in getting a true love i guess. I hope you've gotten someone of like mind that believe in love and share same view as yours |
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Uh-uh. Distance can kill love but it cant start love. Moreover, there is low probability that one would date outta his/her Ethnicity. Mostly it never works
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Well you can converse with people from all over the world and that's a great thing. I love learning about other cultures and other countries. But "dating" would require getting together. Long distant love affairs just don't work unless you have found a way to do out of body projection and meet in the astral plane for spirit to spirit encounters. I find I just can't get out (of my body) any more.  
Besides a spirit to spirit sexual encounter might spawn a demon love child.
You're such a funny person, so you don't get out of your body any more? Well the world is getting small and it's a matter of hours back or forth |
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Hear we go again, now're talking about feelings, but u talked about distance at first, isn't that contradictory? Because it is impractical to try and carry on a relationship over long distances (my opinion). In any relationship quality time is found within a quantity of time and if the distance is to far lots of time together is near impossible. I do believe in spending quality time together in a relationship, but what about the soldiers in the UN's troops that're presently fighting in Libya, Afganistan, etc. What should their spouses' do? Or sailors on the sea sailing around the world or professions that create little or no time for one's personal life. I have a friend, she's a Child care worker, she works in DC but lives in Virginia. Everyday she works for long hours and doesn't return home till weekend, and this is her regular routine. In as much as i believe in spending quality time together, i think a good relationship needs sacrifice,understanding and trust you said their SPOUSE.... that means they already went thru this whole part of the relationship... they are already in love... and that person, god willing, will return to their spouse... they arent just living out of country... they are working... thats a different case... |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Well you can converse with people from all over the world and that's a great thing. I love learning about other cultures and other countries. But "dating" would require getting together. Long distant love affairs just don't work unless you have found a way to do out of body projection and meet in the astral plane for spirit to spirit encounters. I find I just can't get out (of my body) any more.
Besides a spirit to spirit sexual encounter might spawn a demon love child.
You're such a funny person, so you don't get out of your body any more? Well the world is getting small and it's a matter of hours back or forth No, if you live across the nation, or world that would require getting on an airplane and being searched. Probably strip searched these days. I just refuse to fly via airplanes. Driving or a ship would take a long and expensive time. Walking or swimming would just be too hard. Phone or cyber relationships.... just not the same... I'm too old and too lazy. I'll take a crack at the guy next door. |
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Uh-uh. Distance can kill love but it cant start love. Moreover, there is low probability that one would date outta his/her Ethnicity. Mostly it never works Are you saying interracial relationships don't work? Even if the person stays close to you. Well, i've seen many successful interracial relationships, so i guess u're talking from experience |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Sun 09/04/11 08:40 AM
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Hear we go again, now're talking about feelings, but u talked about distance at first, isn't that contradictory? Because it is impractical to try and carry on a relationship over long distances (my opinion). In any relationship quality time is found within a quantity of time and if the distance is to far lots of time together is near impossible. I do believe in spending quality time together in a relationship, but what about the soldiers in the UN's troops that're presently fighting in Libya, Afganistan, etc. What should their spouses' do? Or sailors on the sea sailing around the world or professions that create little or no time for one's personal life. I have a friend, she's a Child care worker, she works in DC but lives in Virginia. Everyday she works for long hours and doesn't return home till weekend, and this is her regular routine. In as much as i believe in spending quality time together, i think a good relationship needs sacrifice,understanding and trust you said their SPOUSE.... that means they already went thru this whole part of the relationship... they are already in love... and that person, god willing, will return to their spouse... they arent just living out of country... they are working... thats a different case... Yes i said their spouse, but sharing quality time together, affections and romance cannot be given through the distance. Surprisingly, the spouses' the soldiers left at home might be seeing someone else, so it doesn't matter if they've build a relationship or not. Distance is distance, some people are more physical in their love life, they want to feel and touch love, not just some voice and video communication. |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Uh-uh. Distance can kill love but it cant start love. Moreover, there is low probability that one would date outta his/her Ethnicity. Mostly it never works Are you saying interracial relationships don't work? Even if the person stays close to you. Well, i've seen many successful interracial relationships, so i guess u're talking from experience In general most relationships don't work permanently. All relationships are temporary. Interracial relationships can work as well as any, but it is not the race that is the problem, it is the background, the mind set, the lack of things in common that are a strain on any relationship. |
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No, if you live across the nation, or world that would require getting on an airplane and being searched. Probably strip searched these days. I just refuse to fly via airplanes. Driving or a ship would take a long and expensive time. Walking or swimming would just be too hard. Phone or cyber relationships.... just not the same... I'm too old and too lazy. I'll take a crack at the guy next door. Okay good for you, but have you gotten anyone in the cyberworld that you ended up dating? If not do you think you'd get any date in here? |
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No, if you live across the nation, or world that would require getting on an airplane and being searched. Probably strip searched these days. I just refuse to fly via airplanes. Driving or a ship would take a long and expensive time. Walking or swimming would just be too hard. Phone or cyber relationships.... just not the same... I'm too old and too lazy. I'll take a crack at the guy next door. Okay good for you, but have you gotten anyone in the cyberworld that you ended up dating? If not do you think you'd get any date in here? Personally, No. I've seen some who have though. |
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Uh-uh. Distance can kill love but it cant start love. Moreover, there is low probability that one would date outta his/her Ethnicity. Mostly it never works Are you saying interracial relationships don't work? Even if the person stays close to you. Well, i've seen many successful interracial relationships, so i guess u're talking from experience In general most relationships don't work permanently. All relationships are temporary. Interracial relationships can work as well as any, but it is not the race that is the problem, it is the background, the mind set, the lack of things in common that are a strain on any relationship. Jeanniebean you just hit the nail on its head, thanks for that response |
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Uh-uh. Distance can kill love but it cant start love. Moreover, there is low probability that one would date outta his/her Ethnicity. Mostly it never works Are you saying interracial relationships don't work? Even if the person stays close to you. Well, i've seen many successful interracial relationships, so i guess u're talking from experience In general most relationships don't work permanently. All relationships are temporary. Interracial relationships can work as well as any, but it is not the race that is the problem, it is the background, the mind set, the lack of things in common that are a strain on any relationship. Jeanniebean you just hit the nail on its head, thanks for that response |
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