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Topic: PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE
frankfk's photo
Sat 07/14/07 09:42 AM
"You 're right to be cautious when you hear these words, I am telling you, we 're just friends."

Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace
and internet have become fertile breeding grounds for 'FRIENDSHIP' that can slowly turn into love affairs, sometimes intentionally, but mostly unintentionally.

You can protect your relationship from emotional and sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage

happyinaz's photo
Sat 07/14/07 09:50 AM
Yes I agree, and for one, anyone that is married or enspoused, SHOULDN'T Be on these sites! That is a novel approach. I guess some people just don't get it. Your spouse should be your number one friend, confidant and the person, you should be spending time with. My opinion, for what it's worth. Nice thread. Thanks for the post. I hope some people that need to read it. DO!

creationsfire's photo
Sat 07/14/07 10:11 AM
Although this is primarily a dating site, it has also turned out to be a place for friendships as well. I've seen a few couples in the site who participate as long as they are mutually agreeable about it so as to continue to participate in the forums with thier friends.

You make some tight friends here and like ti interact with them. Just because you have a relationship doesn't eman you should give up your friends.

Contact them outside of the site.......well then you are missing out on the whole companionship of the site. People come to know that you are married or committed, since it should be stated in your profile. How can you make new friends and stay intouch with the ones you have a well as being able to participate in the forums if you just cut yourslef off because you have a relationship.

Let me say once again, THIS IS ONLY IF THE AGREEMENT IS MUTUALL MADE BETWEEN THE COUPLE....

I like this site, I love my friends, I wouldn't give them up in person, why would I give them up just because they are on this site? There is much more to this particular site than any other, and I for one would question anyone interested in me or that I have a relationship with or ended up marrying if they expected me to give up my friends.

Many people here on the site, male and female have met in person. Friendship is a prize possession. No one should expect you to throw that away! Just my two cents.

SheNerd's photo
Sat 07/14/07 10:20 AM
Many people here on the site, male and female have met in person. Friendship is a prize possession. No one should expect you to throw that away! Just my two cents.

I agree. Toasts creationsfire with a two fisted salute and a tall mug of the monkey's finest... :)

creationsfire's photo
Sat 07/14/07 10:48 AM
Thank you She.....can I get some chocolate and a hug from your monkey? btw, hows your diet coming along?

SheNerd's photo
Sat 07/14/07 10:55 AM
Monkey hugs creations and gives her a big wet snogger and some chocolates.

The diet was a bust. I guess I'll just have to settle for going back to my reunion with the second best accordion and the best looking monkey...

no photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:19 AM
lol the diet I gave you sherbert???? Its a loooooooong 3 days!!!laugh laugh

SheNerd's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:19 AM
Sure is. Well, there's just more of me to go around and around and around...

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Sat 07/14/07 11:20 AM
lol and by day 3.....you see all those carrots and tuna and omg.......its hell but its worth it. Or you can always try again.... :wink:

SheNerd's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:21 AM
You never know, maybe I will, when they stop making doughnuts and chocolates and swonnicles...

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Sat 07/14/07 11:23 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

frankfk's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:34 AM
SheNerd, be careful to deal with gypsy, she is not easy to give uplaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

frankfk's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:42 AM
Please read this thread a little deeply, all men and women are not bad here as well as the rest of the world. 'THE FOUNDATION OF THE WORLD IS BASED WITH GOOD PEOPLE REGARDLESS THIER NUMBERS, AND FRIENDSHIP IS SACRED AND FRIENDS ARE NUMBER ONE BLESSINGS, if you find one sincere friend here, you don't need anything else.

THX

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Sat 07/14/07 11:45 AM
What do you mean Frank's Crotch???:wink: laugh laugh

SheNerd's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:47 AM
I will not look at the crotch,
I will not look at the crotch,
I will not look at the crotch...


Greyhound's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:47 AM
Gypsy laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

frankfk's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:47 AM
SheNerd, look i did not say anything about crotchlaugh laugh I told youlaugh laugh

SheNerd's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:50 AM
Monkey peeks and races off in a jealous rage after peeing all over everything...

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Sat 07/14/07 11:53 AM
hahaha but his crotch is staring right at me!!!!laugh laugh laugh

frankfk's photo
Sat 07/14/07 11:57 AM
it was covered last wknd GYPSY, as well as this wkndlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
and no desk here to spill anything:wink:

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