I feel the only true way to have a long and successful relationship,Is total honesty, all that means is, if things are not going well, don't go out cheating on your partner, but just man up and say look, things are not working out lets try and work on the problems, or lets just call it quits, I feel this Is the only answer, as I have suffered a broken heart, just because the people involved could not just say look it's over or I am seeing someone else, of course maggots like the ones I'm am referring to get their rocks off by the excitement of the lies and deceit and are true vermin.

we've all been there... and i agree completely!

yep....hear ya...on that...that's y I gave up on love already....and put tattoo on my butt that say "bite me"...

cheaters suck

momma always said cheaters never prosper

I think people in relationships should discuss their boundaries and expectations honestly and periodically. If there is too much sacrifice on one part or both it should be reevaluated. People change and long term commitments now and then need adjustments, even if this means letting go. I would rather be heartbroken and move on than stay with someone and find out he stayed with me because of a commitment we made that he outgrew. Growth takes precedence over staying together because without growth our relationship can not evolve anyway. We might as well love the other person enough to let go.