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Topic: can a person really fall out of love?
wux's photo
Thu 07/07/11 11:17 PM

I don’t think it’s “fall” so much as it is grow


^ this too. Although with an inch of caution: This above one can be easily transcommuted to be the answer to the question, "what is a true erection?"

manwondering's photo
Thu 07/07/11 11:44 PM
of course a person can fall out of love,,if a persons wants,,desires,,wishes,,needs,,are disregarded,,ignored,,discounted,,its easy to lose the faith,,respect,,love for any person,,

egoodrich's photo
Fri 07/08/11 09:35 AM
yes it can happen. i've been told this several times over the years ohwell grumble

no photo
Fri 07/08/11 09:36 AM
yes

funvendorguy's photo
Fri 07/08/11 10:45 AM
Of Course. Try being friends first. Then you will now more about them and what they are about before you get with them. I love all my friends.

Simonedemidova's photo
Fri 07/08/11 11:03 AM

I dont think people fall out of love. its often an excuse to get away from someone, true love never dies



Every memory is a reminder of love...If it makes you mad, it's because you miss what was once there...and how it got messed up..

If it's sad it's because you miss what was once there __LOL

If it's happy and it's gone--it's because you miss what was once there

If it was not true love memories would not reflect emotions. . other than laughter---perhapslaugh laugh laugh if the relationship was a joke and not really based on "LOVE"

wux's photo
Fri 07/08/11 11:09 AM
Edited by wux on Fri 07/08/11 11:10 AM
Being in love is like being drunk in a bar.

Some fall out of love, or else out of the bar. (Although that's why they are called bars, because the early bars had bars to keep people from falling out.)

Some fall out of love, some get thrown out of love by the bouncers.

Some are intoxicated by love.

Some watch tv when in a love.

Some conduct business in a bar, for the love of love, for the love of money.

Some drink beer in the love.

Therefore most go to the lovetory when they have drunk a quantity of beer.

capri01's photo
Tue 07/12/11 02:48 PM
I think if the love is a lie yes, but if its true love no. But even if it is true love you can grow apart.


no photo
Tue 07/12/11 03:01 PM
Speaking of the romantic term of "falling in love..."

Falling "in love" is basically only temporary. It is like a hypnotic obsession. Infatuation. Chemistry. Temporary!!

It is a mutual admiration society. Hopefully its mutual.

Once you learn how flawed the other person is -- your delusion is dashed.

So do you fall out of love? You were never really "in love" in the first place.


no photo
Tue 07/12/11 03:03 PM


I don’t think it’s “fall” so much as it is grow


Or maybe it is that we stop loving, rather then fall out of loving...


Yes that too.

You grow and you put your attention elsewhere. It is a matter of where your attention is put.


joy4gud's photo
Wed 07/13/11 10:52 AM

I believe its more of not working on staying in love, too many couples get complacent and the relationship grows stale.

I believe you.

no photo
Wed 07/13/11 10:55 AM

I believe its more of not working on staying in love, too many couples get complacent and the relationship grows stale.


Well if anyone comes up with a formula to prevent that from happening I'm all ears.

Jack0fHearts87's photo
Wed 07/13/11 04:03 PM
Once you learn how flawed the other person is -- your delusion is dashed.


Ah, but what if that is entirely the reason that you love that person? What if it's their social irregularities and lack of being "prim and proper" that make it so they occupy your every waking thought?

On the topic, it is entirely possible to "Fall out" of love. The individual who said that it's partners who "stop being in love" was only half right. For instance with my last relationship, I still loved my ex very much, and tried everything within my ability to repair our relationship. But she had stopped loving, and because of that our relationship fell apart.

The term "Falling out of love" is really more apt than "falling in love," because the verb "falling" denotes being in a higher position prior to the "fall." For most of us, love - as undefinable as it is - is far better than being without love. Nobody likes sleeping in an empty bed every night. I personally think the terms would be more accurate in saying "Growing in love" and "falling out of love." But that's just me.

Teditis's photo
Wed 07/13/11 04:09 PM

i need to know

Haha, just meet some of the ladies I have...

no photo
Wed 07/13/11 05:14 PM
like a lead balloon..

Jack0fHearts87's photo
Wed 07/13/11 05:39 PM
Or a Led Zeppelin. laugh

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