I dated this French guy who I truly adore and I felt that he was also into me. He would do all those romantics acts, to the point of being over the top sometimes, say things a woman really wants to hear, make love passionately, show me off in public and make me feel beautiful, desired and admired. In return, I did my best to be the perfect partner and girlfriend. Loved him, cry with him, make him feel that he is the center of my life After a couple of months, I discovered all the skeletons in his closet.. he told me he was never married, only to find out that he is divorced with a daughter.. condoms in his bag which is disappearing one by one, notes from women plus drinking problem.

This situation reminds me a song by ADELE "Rolling in thhe deep"

the scars of your love remind me of us
i can't help thinking we could have had it all
the scars of your love they leave me breathless
I can't help thinking we could have had it all

I am wondering, what makes a man cheat and lie while he is getting a great deal of affection and care from a woman?

by the way, i throw him out of my apartment and I am over the grieving part :)

men don't cheat. you are dealing with a boy. he needs to grow up

i guess you are right.. i just want to know how old should a guy be before he turns into a man? this guy is 40! and he is still a boy??? LOL

some boys become men very early (like a pre teen becoming the man of the house when the father is no longer there) and other boys never reach manhood. age is not the determining factor for manhood these days

hehhehe .. i know... It's a sarcastic remark that actually say its takes a lot of expiences for guys to turn into a better man

they want it all,,lol

or, the 80/20 rule


any of us can make a list of the ten most important things in a partner, and probably find noone who had all ten

sometimes , we get someone who is 80 percent of everything we want, but we only are focused on the 20 percent thats missing,, when that 20 percent comes along (for men , usually in the department of passion and sex that can sometimes diminish throughout a longtime relationship where responsibilities are shared) ,,,they RUN After it, believing they can have it all 100% between more than one woman

sadly for them, they sometimes end up with just that 20 percent before they realize how much they should have appreciated what was at home,,,

nauibeth, i just looked over your profile, and grr baby very grr. you will have no trouble finding a man

they want it all,,lol

or, the 80/20 rule


any of us can make a list of the ten most important things in a partner, and probably find noone who had all ten

sometimes , we get someone who is 80 percent of everything we want, but we only are focused on the 20 percent thats missing,, when that 20 percent comes along (for men , usually in the department of passion and sex that can sometimes diminish throughout a longtime relationship where responsibilities are shared) ,,,they RUN After it, believing they can have it all 100% between more than one woman

sadly for them, they sometimes end up with just that 20 percent before they realize how much they should have appreciated what was at home,,,

I totally agree! this is the reason why I didn't feel so hurt letting him go because I am so sure of the 100% i gave to make the relationship work. I am SOOOOO sure that it will take someone really special to come even close to what I did for him. One of these days, he will realized it but by then i'm gone.

MERCI BIEN MONSIEUR! That's really sweet.. i can have a man any moment of the day ( ahemmm....modesty aside) but I am not just wanting a man.. I want a REAL MAN and of course you know what I mean by that.. :)

Merci beaucoup. Dommage que vous ne sont pas au Texas

Boys miss out on some great lovin, then they turn into men that miss out on great lives.

profound ... loved it!

Impressive!! Parle vous Francais, Monsieur? :)

Man is like a butterfly, hold him tight and he'll be crushed... hold him loosely and he'll fly away. In my opinion, too much of anything ruins everything.




The best way to deal with someone like him Rock on!

what

(amazing what google translater can do)

wow, you are my new best cyber friend,,,lol