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Dating is a matter of the heart not the wallet. We have revolved our world around the almighty dollar so much that we have lost contact with reality. I believe these tough times are showing us who we are from different points of view than we had just a few years ago. We need to stop looking outward and start looking inward. "What makes him or her special enough to want to see" is the question not can I afford to see him or her. My goodness if it gets much tougher financially we will be meeting in a food line for our dates but we will know who we are outside of a pay check. Use this as a test to really get to know the soul of the person you would like to see. Who is on the inside and not the clothing they wear. You are no longer judged by the dollars in your pockets but by the love in your hearts. It should have been this way all along and I personally believe it is what has raised our divorce rate up so high. We need to stop looking at things as being who we are. It's like this, you may not be able to be the Sugar Daddy or Mama but you are just as sweet to the taste. Don't sell yourselves short. Live life on the positive and not the negative. michael |
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unemployed and dating
any veiws people? 
As important as freckles. hey my freckles are seriously an asset 
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I don't really give a **** what other people do in their spare time unless it will potentially kill me. amen |
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I'm with ya on that one Sis!!
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Edited by
MisKim323
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Tue 06/14/11 05:05 AM
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Dating is a matter of the heart not the wallet. We have revolved our world around the almighty dollar so much that we have lost contact with reality. I believe these tough times are showing us who we are from different points of view than we had just a few years ago. We need to stop looking outward and start looking inward. "What makes him or her special enough to want to see" is the question not can I afford to see him or her. My goodness if it gets much tougher financially we will be meeting in a food line for our dates but we will know who we are outside of a pay check. Use this as a test to really get to know the soul of the person you would like to see. Who is on the inside and not the clothing they wear. You are no longer judged by the dollars in your pockets but by the love in your hearts. It should have been this way all along and I personally believe it is what has raised our divorce rate up so high. We need to stop looking at things as being who we are. It's like this, you may not be able to be the Sugar Daddy or Mama but you are just as sweet to the taste. Don't sell yourselves short. Live life on the positive and not the negative. michael  There are so many things to do in life that don't cost a thing but your time....'The best things in life........"
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any veiws people?
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Money is everything to me. So I see it as a gift and a quality.
I am a person that enjoys flashing the cash. It makes me more out going, and it makes me feel real. Take my money away, and you take away my smile with it. In a partner, I would expect a little self income. I believe that's what makes a person whole. I don't want to have children, if the cash flow is dry. I would expect my children to enjoy money, and make a little, just like I have. It makes for a better world! ^_^ |
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Why not? My estranged husband has been unemployed for almost half of our married life and it didn't bother me because I was financially able to support the family and it was not like he really enjoyed the unemployment and wasn't useless in the family too.
For as long as unemployment is not something of his lifelong hobby, I would not be afraid to date someone who is currently unemployed but is definitely wanting to be useful in the society. |
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In a partner, I would expect a little self income. I believe that's what makes a person whole. Hummm guess there is a whole lot of people around this world that is not whole...........including me... I would hate to know that I was judged on how much money I have or material items....... 
But............then if that is what ones want to go on I would rather them not be a part of my life....... 
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just think if your unemployed and collecting it atleast the woman can't complain "your never home you work to much thats why i screwed the unemployed neighbor"
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Why would a guy who puts money first want me around? They won't be bothered about having me in their life.
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Why would a guy who puts money first want me around? They won't be bothered about having me in their life.
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Nice to know i'll be judged for whether i'm unemployed or not, rather than loving me for the person i am :O I'm only unemployed anyway, cos i had developed aggraphobia a few years ago. I got help for it. So all i need is to keep sending my CV off. Big deal. If i end up having children, then so be it. You can't always control fate.
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Nice to know i'll be judged for whether i'm unemployed or not, rather than loving me for the person i am :O I'm only unemployed anyway, cos i had developed aggraphobia a few years ago. I got help for it. So all i need is to keep sending my CV off. Big deal. If i end up having children, then so be it. You can't always control fate. Haha, Excuse me? Was that aimed at me? Just because I would, dosn't mean that others won't. Keep looking, I'm sure you'll find the right guy eventually. Oh, and your children are very lucky to have a mummy and daddy that can barely afford to look after them. What a great life that's going to be 
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Now that I am finally out of college I am unemployed since I do not go to school but I have not found a job yet either. I do not feel right to ask someone out when I am broke. Yes there are free things to do, but I would not feel good about it. I am not actively looking for anyone until I have a job again, but if I find someone who understands then who knows...
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Haha, Excuse me? Was that aimed at me? How is it aimed at you in partcular? You, you, you. I'm thinking how money and love don't go hand in hand. They're completely different topics from each other. As Jessie J says "We don't need you're money. Ain't about the bling-a-bling". It's not about you. I'm pretty sure i'd make sure i had a job before i started having kids. I already am wise enough to know to not bring a child up in an environment with not much to live on. As it wouldn't be fair on the child.
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Haha, Excuse me? Was that aimed at me? How is it aimed at you in partcular? You, you, you. I'm thinking how money and love don't go hand in hand. They're completely different topics from each other. As Jessie J says "We don't need you're money. Ain't about the bling-a-bling". It's not about you. I'm pretty sure i'd make sure i had a job before i started having kids. I already am wise enough to know to not bring a child up in an environment with not much to live on. As it wouldn't be fair on the child.
You really do have more qualitys, then you would let yourself believe :) As long as a child can grow up in good health, and with a healthy mind, then that's fair enough. We are living in the 21st century, not the cave man days. I'd myself expect my children to see me as a good modern father, that can help them enjoy, feel, and see, their constantly developing world. A good meal on the table, and a good education. Well, that's just me! xD |
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Being unemployd means u have more timeforyour partner. A rich guy might want his partner to qthere job.
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Mon 06/20/11 09:16 AM
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