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Topic: Real Question (mainly for the ladies)
Chazster's photo
Mon 06/13/11 01:14 PM
Well if girls have your attitude they will never date you. You are overweight and have a bad attitude. People focus too much on weight. It has nothing to do with weight it has to do with body composition. %Body Fat to be precise. A 140 pound woman with 20% body fat will look sexier than a 120 pound person with 30%.

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 06/13/11 06:44 PM


Ok, here's the skinny or fat---

I just reviewed Drews Profile. I think in my own opinion, that EVERYTHING was placed on there in a humorous tone. Clearly if you read through his entire profile he is using a comedic technique exuding pessimistic behavior. Either he is trying to make us laugh, or he is hiding behind a wall in fear of getting hurt....as many of us do..

I use a wall of unrealistic expectations to stay detached from people. That way I know i wont get hurt. Yet at the same time I want to find that special someone....but just in case they hurt me I wont really like them anyways....this is what I see when you read his profile.

He can like whatever preferences he wants. I dont want to date a midget. Im sorry if thats rude and I know there are a lot of nice midgets in the world, but it's not for me.....peeps gotta stop picking on drew for having an opinion that is relative to his dating life. You dont have to date him...


he started the thread and asked opinions.....




Yes he did, Is my opinion no good here??? He asked their opinions and then all sorts of people started making references to the things he had listed on his profile...you can twist anything when you take it out of context.

Offer your opinion, but to state an opinion as a reflection of what you interpreted on HIS personal profile would not coagulate with the purpose of the OP...

Jenninqc's photo
Mon 06/13/11 06:58 PM
Just my opinion>>>I read the first couple of responses and I have to say that if you are on a sit elike this you have a wonderful oppurtunity to meet the person behind the weight, so you are attracted to slender women, if you were to meet the perfect woman on here that you share a connection with, have things in common with and like, if you seen her and she wasn't slender would you walk away? Beauty is skin deep, and just because of the cliche but because the weight you are today will change over the next year, plus or minus. If you put too much into looks you will be very disappointed in the long run,just sayin.....

Holly4459's photo
Mon 06/13/11 07:16 PM

Do you feel that an overweight man isn't good enough for/doesn't deserve a slender woman? Or that he shouldn't even try? Or that he's dreaming if he thinks he could attract a slender woman?

Does an overweight man have a chance; or should he just settle for whoever is willing to be with him?





and i know that there are some funny overweight guys out there that women just love, like jack black or kevin james. but not every overweight guy is extremely funny, so let's ignore the exceptions.


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IMO-you can't get inside someone's head and try to figure out what their preferences are or will be.
Some judge a book by his cover-some don't. I look at the whole package...the only way to do it!

Dragoness's photo
Mon 06/13/11 07:27 PM

Do you feel that an overweight man isn't good enough for/doesn't deserve a slender woman? Or that he shouldn't even try? Or that he's dreaming if he thinks he could attract a slender woman?

Does an overweight man have a chance; or should he just settle for whoever is willing to be with him?





and i know that there are some funny overweight guys out there that women just love, like jack black or kevin james. but not every overweight guy is extremely funny, so let's ignore the exceptions.


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No one should consider themselves not good enough to be with anybody else, if they do they set themselves to fail before they even start.

I like big men and skinny men. I am not a thin woman myself but consider myself able to be an excellent woman for any man who doesn't like meek women.

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