Topic: You're too young!
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Fri 05/06/11 05:48 AM


Totage, thanks for the compliment. And, you're right. . .it's not just a number. People say that to justify being with someone much younger.
To me age is just a number and it is not to be with someone younger. There are people in their 20's that act like they are 40 and people in their 40's who act like they are 20. I have date older and younger as long as we have things in common.

I am just saying this so maybe you at least think about it if someone say 36 says they like you (you said 38 was as young as you would go). That is not that much younger than you are and maybe they would be your soul mate...


A couple years younger than what you normally go for is not a big deal. Many, many years younger/older tends to be a bigger deal. But really, if someone has an age preference, why try to talk them out of it?

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Fri 05/06/11 06:27 AM

Can someone please tell me why I continue to get requests from very young guys?!! I KNOW I don't so young and I even put my age out there! I'm 41 yrs old and turn 42 on Mother's Day.




I indicated in my profile page that I'm a century old and I still get emails from 20 something boys. laugh

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Fri 05/06/11 09:08 AM
Woe woe woe..! We young studs arent that bad as we appear. Not untill chick starts teasin us.. Well, i myself like older women probably a milf.. Lol yeah i agree some youngsters are pevert, bah but thats the generation X

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Fri 05/06/11 09:33 AM
I dont respond to anyone in their 20's...too young. . .

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Fri 05/06/11 09:40 AM
Edited by red_lace on Fri 05/06/11 09:49 AM

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Fri 05/06/11 11:03 AM

I dont respond to anyone in their 20's...too young. . .
but i responded to your friend request.. :wink:

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Fri 05/06/11 03:30 PM

Can someone please tell me why I continue to get requests from very young guys?!! I KNOW I don't so young and I even put my age out there! I'm 41 yrs old and turn 42 on Mother's Day.




laugh It happens to me as well! It's very annoying to say the leastgrumble

Most of the ones who email me are 18 and 19 years oldwhoa

My YOUNGEST son is 34...HELLO???whoa

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Fri 05/06/11 03:36 PM
Ha! I'll be 53 in two weeks and got carded for smokes today...I was like "are you serious" when she asked my birthdate..told her the generic one would work:tongue:

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Fri 05/06/11 03:40 PM

Can someone please tell me why I continue to get requests from very young guys?!! I KNOW I don't so young and I even put my age out there! I'm 41 yrs old and turn 42 on Mother's Day.


well i guess your a good looking ladie and the yonger guys think so too:) i think your good looking i not that young:) winks lol:wink: flowerforyou :banana:

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Fri 05/06/11 03:48 PM

Totage, thanks for the compliment. And, you're right. . .it's not just a number. People say that to justify being with someone much younger.


no it;s not to "justify" anything and that's not why it's said

I mean I'm sorry you are bothered by young men viewing you and 20-somethings are too young for me too

but that doesn't mean I won't talk to them....age is just a number is in reference to consenting adults who do not mind dating older or younger

tho u are annoyed - you also sound a little judgmental which can offend some who simply have different preferences than you do

I think a feature where we can restrict who views or messages us by age - gender - AND geographic location would be great

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Fri 05/06/11 03:51 PM

Woe woe woe..! We young studs arent that bad as we appear. Not untill chick starts teasin us.. Well, i myself like older women probably a milf.. Lol yeah i agree some youngsters are pevert, bah but thats the generation X


are you sure you shouldn't be doing ur homework

(Im his "cybermom")

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Fri 05/06/11 04:03 PM


Can someone please tell me why I continue to get requests from very young guys?!! I KNOW I don't so young and I even put my age out there! I'm 41 yrs old and turn 42 on Mother's Day.




You do not look 41, not that 41 is old, but you do look much younger.



im 47
and i still get carded every now and then
some people think that my daughter and i are sisters not mother and daughterlaugh

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Fri 05/06/11 04:14 PM



Can someone please tell me why I continue to get requests from very young guys?!! I KNOW I don't so young and I even put my age out there! I'm 41 yrs old and turn 42 on Mother's Day.




You do not look 41, not that 41 is old, but you do look much younger.



im 47
and i still get carded every now and then
some people think that my daughter and i are sisters not mother and daughterlaugh



I got carded at age 38(mother of 4 kids) at a college bar( was there with younger friends) Almost gave that guy a kiss!!!!:banana:

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Fri 05/06/11 04:42 PM


I dont respond to anyone in their 20's...too young. . .
but i responded to your friend request.. :wink:


Thats cuz You're Special!!!!flowerforyou And we're just friends.:wink:

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Fri 05/06/11 04:52 PM

Crazyed, no, age is not just a number. If that were true we wouldn't have laws against child molesters. Anyway, I can't see having anything in common with a twenty something year old. Even anyone younger than 38 (for me) is too young. But, that's just me.


A bit of an extreme, no?

Anyway, just don't answer them...Pretty simple. And yes, age is in fact just a number consisting of two digits, only difference is experience of said number.

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Sat 05/07/11 10:34 AM
Happens to me all the time. While I find it flattering, 22 is not a guy I'd date. I have an 18 year old and would feel like a child molestor. I don't agree that age is just a number, certain things like life experiences come into play. I'm looking for someone who has been through them, is done sewing their oats, and is in the same life place as I am. Although, correct me if I am wrong LOL I am meeting men mid 30's and up who think they are still 22 and are just out for a fling, think texting is a way of communicating, or think you are their girlfriend after one date. Ahhhh, single life is fun! What happened to courting a woman???? I would love that!

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Sat 05/07/11 10:40 AM

What is too young? Isn't age just a number anyways?

agree

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Sat 05/07/11 10:43 AM

To me age is just a number and it is not to be with someone younger. There are people in their 20's that act like they are 40 and people in their 40's who act like they are 20.

agree....some people are much more mature for there age and others not so. It's what you and the other person feel comfortable with.


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Sat 05/07/11 10:44 AM

Happens to me all the time. While I find it flattering, 22 is not a guy I'd date. I have an 18 year old and would feel like a child molestor. I don't agree that age is just a number, certain things like life experiences come into play. I'm looking for someone who has been through them, is done sewing their oats, and is in the same life place as I am. Although, correct me if I am wrong LOL I am meeting men mid 30's and up who think they are still 22 and are just out for a fling, think texting is a way of communicating, or think you are their girlfriend after one date. Ahhhh, single life is fun! What happened to courting a woman???? I would love that!


most men do not know how to do that as no one ever taught them...but yanno I have never even thought to equate the younger men I've dated to my older sons - I mean they haven't been as young as them but still

that you'd even put that out there seems a little strange to menoway noway

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Sat 05/07/11 10:45 AM
i have to agree with the op, my last GF was half my age and i will never do that again...once bitten, twice shy...let the kids play with each other...