time to change the numbers on both cell and home--

If I change numbers wouldn't it seem like I'm playing his game? I can turn off my answering machine (already did) I turned down the volume so it just rings and rings and rings and rings and rings and rings and rings Now he's being a complete dork and texting me LOL I just keep saying "ok" and it's annoying the crap outta him. I'm not turning off my cell phone though - my family could be trying to reach me my sister in law is in labor it's her 5th so it should go quick

Damn, dont even bother explaining anything to him. Just tell him he was obnoxiously drunk and that is only a sign of things to come that you aren't going to deal with....NEXT!

lol unfortunately I'm a bit of a chicken **** when it comes to dating so my NEXT will probably be 3 years from now

I agree with most and msWizard said it simply.

There are ALOT of people that CHANGE to ANOTHER person when there DRINK, HE HAS "THAT" PROBLEM.

Your BEAUTIFUL, You can find someone more CONSIDERATE, and deserving of YOU!!!

Now for #8 NEW DATE,wink,lol....

have 1 of 5 brothers pay him a visit.!!!!

Tell the truth, be nice, sorry just doesn't work, etc.
Big thing is truth & tell him to lay off.
Document on paper what happened & save message tape.
Just in case you have to get legal on him.
Sorry this happened, keep swinging;you'll hit a home run.

lol They would too....but I'm a big girl hopefully I can take care of this without involving my Uncle Nunzio and his band of cohorts...the advice is great though and there are alot of good points. I appreciate it immensely...dont' stop!

yes and if he has text messages threats etc, do not delete them.

xactly what sage said. good luck.

cat, you need to tell him the truth, that he made youvery uncomfortable, and he is not your type, if that don't work, you do have five brothers,as a big brother myself, they will take care of their sister, they will talk to him, in ways he will understand,
Not all of us men are that way, so by no means wait three years for another date, there are some gentlemen still out there

"lol unfortunately I'm a bit of a chicken **** when it comes to dating so my NEXT will probably be 3 years from now"

Oh I doubt it! You're a lovely girl and you seem to have a wondeful disposition...ditch the loser and get your bad self out there Missy!!

dont waste your time explaining..... one date u need not!!! sounds like his major problem is he is possesive....even before u are a gf to him and just a date.....he just gave u a taste of whom he is.. first date and all they act really good for theirselves on the first date.. first few dates...... then the true colors really come out after that.... so if ya dont like it now.. im sure more and likely it will get even worse..... i think u know your own answer though..... even if u dont normally do breakfast... if it was a perfect date night before im sure u would at least want to go with him and have coffee or something..... gl..deb

Wow, just be glad you saw this now, and not later in the relationship. That could have sucked. Anyway, yeah does he know were you live?

You tell her buttons, you above all know what you need to do, dump his stupid , possesive ass

I am also a chicken...but I wouldn't want someone bugging me all the time. When they invade my space...they need to back out of my space!! Its just time you tell him the way it is...so just do it!! Why would you give him the pleasure of turning off your phone and turning down your home phone? He was the one who was the idiot...just tell him the truth!! Just be nice and then if that doesn't work, just say LOOK, I DON'T WANT YOU TO CALL ME EVER AGAIN. If he keeps calling, call the police, they will have a little chat with him. Atleast tell him to leave you alone and be done with him.
Good luck!!

I did. I got on the phone with him after it rang like 300 times and I told him "I appreciate dinner last night and I had a really good time on the 4th with you (I did actually) but I am not interested in someone who drinks and acts like you did last night. If you continue to call me I will contact the police and if you continue to THREATEN me I will contact my brothers." and hung up too nice?

atta gurl,.!!!!!!!!

you did perfect hon, tellhim how the cow eatthe cabbage, just stand by your words,brothers will take care of him real quick

You go g/f!!!!!!!!!!!

There now he has no exscuse to call...Anything beyond now is harassment!!!!!!