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just this once i wish someone could keep their damn word is a few hours with my dad really that much to ask? whats wrong with parents these days its like their totally oblivious to the fact that when promises aren't kept our hearts are broken!
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Oh princess ((HUGS)) i feel your pain they just don't understand even if they say they do
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I know sooo know what you mean! My parents do that to me all the time. So i've learned not to get excited for anything until i'm staring at it.
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Sorry to hear it, shy. Hugs!!
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Hey I'm a parent who cares about their kids
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ummm!clears his throat..SORRY BABY GIRL. for you..
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What happened to the days where a promise was a binding contract that you could count on... My parents rarely ever promised anything, because a Promise is supposed to mean something and when they did make a promise, they always kept it.
They taught me the value of honesty and reliability and I always believed everything they said because of it. Could they have been lying to me, sure, but if they did I never found out. |
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Bay ...... So am I. Shy I wish there was some words to say that would make it all better but I am at a loss for them and I do feel bad for you. |
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well shy.... when i promise my kids that im going to do something with them I do it my kids are my love and always will be, I just sorry I'm not your dad because you wouldn't be frustrated
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I have 3 boys 32,29 and 13 and 3 grandkids
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here in awhile im taking my son night fishing............. Try talking to your dad
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wow bayliner... thats alot of promises to keep up with!!!
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Hey Shy, that is a real rough one. Have you talked to yur dad about it? Perhaps he isn't aware how badly he hurt you! Try to keep it mellow and ask why.
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well cancer my kids mean alot maybe that why I dont have a relationship with the opposite sex
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Yes shy talk to him my dad promised to do something with me on my birthday when I was young and never did and it still is in my memory
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hes not my real dad hes a friend of my moms but still hes been like a father to me since 7th grade so im not sure if i have a right to be angry i mean hell the guy even called to check on my grades b4 i graduated...he sent me birthday and christmas cards because more often than not my real father was too damn drunk to remember!
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well i'm glad you have been able to keep all your promises to your kids/grandkids. I'm sure they appreciate it and they'll remember it forever!
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Shy just tell him how you feel. Once it's out in the open he'll see just how much you look forward to what he has promised and will then in return try harder to keep them.
Good luck! |
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Hey Shy he may not even know how you feel tell him he is more important to you than he thinks, he does sound like he's more of a dad than your real one and Shy tell him that everyone needs a dad. My dad is 83 and the other day he was using a walker to get around man did that bother me alot
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hey just got a call my son who is 29 is going to go fishing with us
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