I was just wondering on how many people have found someone on this site or any other site without using a pic? So,when you chat with someone your interested in and the question comes up of them asking to see your pic. How do you go about it?

I just ask them straight out after we get to know each other...

I don't have a pic of me posted currently. I have been talking to someone for several days. If it were to get serious and he wanted to see a picture, I would arrange to send a picture over e-mail.

You could always load a picture to your profile for a brief period of time for the person to view and then remove it also.

I've got lots of pix but this is my best one, shows off the mustache and those dynamite pectoral muscles... :)

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How much does the physical / visual matter? How high a priority is it/should it be?

Maybe this should be a new topic, but it seems to fit.

I'm the man behind the monkey...

Well besids this pic and the blazer pic's on my profile, it is full of pic's of me. This is the first time I have not had a pic of me up. Marie I guess my question is to you would be if it does get serious and the person has not seen you yet and you show a pic and there not attraced to you then what? because if you spend any kinda time with someone there going to get somewhat attached. So where does that leave them. I know this has come up as a topic before but I want to know how people are doing with no pic's compare to people with pic's In some situations I know not having a pic will alow the person to see you for who you are.

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How much does the physical / visual matter?

Well it matters alot in todays would and if there is no attraction most will not go any further then friendship

I found that amish people are now strangely attracted to me....

I have to agree with Marie....if I am asked for a pic, I'd probably send one, but I think it is kinda nice sometimes to see what people are really about without a pic to influence your thinking.

Good topic... the times I have not posted a pic I have hardly gotten any emails, the ones I've gooten are mostly trash. Now... I was chatting with a guy once, he had no pics and then sent me a pic via email... he said he was 48 yrs old... when we finally met in person, he was 68yrs old... ouch!! The pic he had sent me was his son's. Talk about disastrous dates !!! Pic or no pic what is really important is that people are honest about themselves and not trying to pose as someone they are not.

Good topic... the times I have not posted a pic I have hardly gotten any emails, the ones I've gotten are mostly trash. Now... I was chatting with a guy once, he had no pics and then sent me a pic via email... he said he was 48 yrs old... when we finally met in person, he was 68yrs old... ouch!! The pic he had sent me was his son's. Talk about disastrous dates !!! Pic or no pic what is really important is that people are honest about themselves and not trying to pose as someone they are not.

You make a very valid point. Have been thinking about it myself. This person I have been writing to has been talking about meeting in the future, but still no request for a pic, so I haven't brought it up either. Trying to get to know the person at this point, not going into much detail now.

Like that one person said, somebody sent a son's picture. We are at the mercy of the other person to be honest with us, and will likely get played, and more than once, who knows. We can hope for the best, but who knows.

Good topic Shadow.

Humm good question but heck have pics in my profile shhhhhhhhhsss and yet to get me any were lol

What about Jehovah's Witnesses? They'll give you a spanking for a dollar or two...

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