When you hear a girl say shes old fashioned, red flags should pop up. Sounds like she wants to be pampered, have the guy pay for everything, and doesn't want any intimacy for a long time possibly till marriage. Now this was fine in the old days but nowadays days, Ive seen guys fall for this line and end up going broke trying to please the woman of their "dreams." Once the money that supports the fun and fantasy runs out, thats when the girl takes the old fashion highway out too. If you really like this girl for whatever reason personality, looks, brains, or all the above, take her on dates like strolling around a lake, the park, walk on a hiking trail, casually walk around the docks, boardwalk on the beach, or anything really just not jumping onto a cruise to the bahamas, weekend getaway to a Bed n Breakfast, or other fantasy trip. You save those ideas for real girlfriends.

"Old-fashioned doesn't mean she wants to be 'pampered'...it means she wants to be respected, not taken down the block to the empty parking lot for a quickie and a blow job just because she spoke to a guy. Old-fashioned means she is looking for a relationship not just casual sex.

She is working so if she wants, she will pay for things to surprise him (make him dinner, buy him something special). But also feels that if a man asks her out, he should pay, unless they are just friends and have discussed going 'Dutch'.