I am just wondering if you all have noticed the same thing that I have..when you ask a guy how he is doing..what is his No.1 answer?

well i know what ur gonnna say .. and most will probably say horny but most guys tell me they are doing good and ask how i'm doing so .. cant help ya with this one

"Without" would be my guess, although, thankfully, the guys I talk to on this site have never responded that way.

actually I was gonna say bored would be No.1 but I've also come to learn that bored translates into horny REALLY QUICK..lol

Lady..

I'm not sure what you mean? Can you explain?

Well I mean everytime I ask a guy how he's doing he will say "I'm bored"..then the next thing outta his mouth is ALWAYS something about sex.."Do you wanna watch me...?" or "Can I watch YOU..?"..lol.Gawd I should just legally change my name to Jerk Magnet..lol

i have to agree with you on this one. all guys end up talkin about how bored they are then it always turns into horny...i definitely know what ur talkin about!

It seems to be what most guys have on their mind.

SOME BODY TELL ME WHAT IS sex ??????????????

The other day this guy wanted me to see him on cam and he had been really nice so I said ok..and that went well he was clothed and didnt talk nasty or anything..so 2hrs later he asks again if i wanna see him again and i ask why i just saw you 2hrs ago..but against my better judgement i finally say ok and the cam comes on and I see that he doesnt have any pants on and is um..pleasuring himself..omg i never moved so fast to shut that cam off!..lol

i know what ur saying... ive had a few guys aready wanting me in their beds.... wanting to marry me.... sickos... i tell them to hit the road...

I met a guy that wanted to marry me after a week..but that was only because I told him that I dont do the sex before marriage thing i think..lol

Ok, I just have to stick my 2cents in . . .
my response is usually a brief 'good, <this or that is going on>, what are you up to' or something else to encourage and extend the type conversation that the question was meant to elicit.
Empty, casual sex is just as boring and ultimately unfulfilling to some guys <I guess - I can't possibly be that different from all my gender kin!>.
Your responses beg me to wonder then about the bad boy attraction some <most?> women have.
Why does 1st date octopus man get the call backs that the gentleman <until I at least know you better ;-) >has to make?

WOW..Everyone went to bed all at once..lol..right after my last post

I don't like the bad boy type..I like the pull your chair out for you..open doors for you inda guys but those dont seem to exist anymore..at least not for me

Yeah I'm tossing my two cents in here two.

Why do women mail and ask us how we are doing?

Then send it as is, and leave it to us to break the ice?

then we reply good, then they feel awkward.

From now on I'm going to reply to 'how are you' as romanticly as I can.

I don't write men first..you see I have a fear of rejection..I fear that I will hurt you if you reject me..lol

You should! Those whio reject you will only be missing out on a great person. Screw them, they arent worthy!

One last point <I'm a talker, not a typist!> before I prep for the onslaught. . .
There are a few of us who would love to get to the point in a relationship where it's time for love talk, and marriage thoughts Before having carnal knowledge, But, without much of that interest seems to wain . . .
Personally I had several very interesting, fun, deep, and personal telephone conversations before my latest date. After a week of silence we spoke again - she thinking I didn't like here because 'you never touched me' ! Huh?!
Oh, I won't go into the ex who wanted to have a sex on demand relationship . . .
2 sides to every coin right?. . .

Awww..thank you Kaed..what a nice thing to say..you're a sweetheart