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Topic: Control dramas
SurrealRealist's photo
Thu 01/20/11 08:50 PM
Which one do you most identify with and why?

They are: Intimidator interrogator poor-me and aloof

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Thu 01/20/11 08:53 PM
are u saying that we all have one?

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 01/20/11 08:54 PM


aloof ~ cause I am
till I get to know ya

SurrealRealist's photo
Thu 01/20/11 08:57 PM
not necessarily but most likely, they're learned traits to get what you want and they work.

RowBaby's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:00 PM
I am probably an interrogator

newarkjw's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:00 PM
I'm usually just confused. I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer........smokin

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:01 PM
I throw heels..like i own em

SurrealRealist's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:02 PM
Its almost legal where I live. Only its medicinal of course.

thewaterbearer's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:03 PM
A combination of Aloof and the Intimadator, more aloof, not Interrogator, as for the other I hate self pity its pathetic.

SurrealRealist's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:03 PM
If so do you realize that you most likely attract aloof people intimately?

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Thu 01/20/11 09:04 PM
well then, although I normally work for or negotiate for what I want (read: adult)

if I had to pick from ur list I'd say aloof - but it seldom gets me what I want. I am that way because I am extremely shy until I have had a chance to warm up to you - in person that is

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:08 PM

If so do you realize that you most likely attract aloof people intimately?


how so?

SurrealRealist's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:08 PM
so what type of guys have you dated with such a shy demeanor?

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Thu 01/20/11 09:12 PM

so what type of guys have you dated with such a shy demeanor?


usually outgoing because I seldom make a first move and I think my shyness can make me seem unapproachable (which I'm not - but I might seem that way)

or sometimes men who I have known as a friend for a long time first

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:14 PM
I don't generally date shy men, quite the opposite actually...

SurrealRealist's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:14 PM
So could you say that if you got over your shyness and were to be the really outgoing one would you be as attracted to the outgoing type of guy?

RowBaby's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:35 PM
Aloof does not mean shy.

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:45 PM

Aloof does not mean shy.


that's a fact..when i caome off as 'cool and aloof'....shy is NOT what people think i am..ohwell

newarkjw's photo
Thu 01/20/11 09:48 PM

Aloof does not mean shy.


I agree. I am always aloof but I am never shy...........smokin

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Thu 01/20/11 09:49 PM

Which one do you most identify with and why?

They are: Intimidator interrogator poor-me and aloof
Your honor,,I swear to all the above....spock

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