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Topic: I like telling someone I Love Them
ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sat 12/25/10 06:08 PM
But only mean it the same way they do.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 12/25/10 06:15 PM
I don't understand what you're trying to say.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 12/25/10 06:18 PM
You must be fun in a relationship! Lol

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sat 12/25/10 06:28 PM Edited by ChangeofHeart on Sat 12/25/10 06:29 PM
I don't understand what you're trying to say. How many meanings does Love have? In how many ways has someone told you they Loved you? How many times have you thought Love ment something else. How many times have you just said it because someone else said it to you. Its just overused. So unless i feel that it really means the person has real affection for me, i just say it as a courtesy.

Allaboutmetoo Joined Sat 12/11/10 Posts: 38	Sat 12/25/10 06:29 PM
So what does it mean when you say "I love you" then?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 12/25/10 06:30 PM
I don't understand what you're trying to say. How many meanings does Love have? In how many ways has someone told you they Loved you? How many times have you thought Love ment something else. How many times have you just said it because someone else said it to you. Its just overused. So unless i feel that it really means the person has real affection for me, i just say it as a courtesy. Oh, I see. You say it even though you don't really mean it.

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sat 12/25/10 06:31 PM
I don't understand what you're trying to say. How many meanings does Love have? In how many ways has someone told you they Loved you? How many times have you thought Love ment something else. How many times have you just said it because someone else said it to you. Its just overused. So unless i feel that it really means the person has real affection for me, i just say it as a courtesy. Oh, I see. You say it even though you don't really mean it. If it comes across to me that way. Yes

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 12/25/10 06:32 PM
i love the green giant

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 12/25/10 06:32 PM
Say it as a courtesy?? Ouch!! How many women have been hurt by that act if kindness!! Those three words carry alot of power in a relationship... Use them wisely Or it I'll turn out to be "the boy who cried wolf!"

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Sat 12/25/10 06:33 PM
i love the green giant Me too

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sat 12/25/10 06:34 PM
Say it as a courtesy?? Ouch!! How many women have been hurt by that act if kindness!! Those three words carry alot of power in a relationship... Use them wisely Or it I'll turn out to be "the boy who cried wolf!" If there is not the right action behind it, then it means nothing more than words

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 12/25/10 06:37 PM
To you as you say them..... What if her feelings are deeper... What if she does love you But you do not love her... Do you say it anyway.... Giving false hope?......

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sat 12/25/10 06:43 PM
To you as you say them..... What if her feelings are deeper... What if she does love you But you do not love her... Do you say it anyway.... Giving false hope?...... If Her actions say I Love You along with Her words, and i feel the same, then i will say it. But i wasnt just talking a bout a Woman. I was talking about the use of I Love You by people in general.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sat 12/25/10 06:47 PM Edited by Gossipmpm on Sat 12/25/10 06:48 PM
But there are so many diff types of love Meaning diff things... Ya know what..... I'm tired It's Xmas I love ya buddy!!

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Sat 12/25/10 06:48 PM
By there are so many diff types of love Meaning diff things... Ya know what..... I'm tired It's Xmas I love ya buddy!! HaHaHa

mdhtx Joined Thu 12/23/10 Posts: 4	Sat 12/25/10 07:41 PM
I think that it is perfectly acceptable to Love someone but it doesn't mean that you have to be IN Love with them. There is a big difference.

BDBoop Joined Tue 12/14/10 Posts: 219	Sat 12/25/10 09:03 PM
So unless i feel that it really means the person has real affection for me, i just say it as a courtesy. Why? It's not a courtesy. If you don't feel it, don't say it.

heavenlyboy34 Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 17348	Sat 12/25/10 09:15 PM
So unless i feel that it really means the person has real affection for me, i just say it as a courtesy. Why? It's not a courtesy. If you don't feel it, don't say it. Not here. I guess it's a regional thing. I tell close friends I love them all the time, because I do! They're fantabulous!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 12/25/10 10:37 PM
So unless i feel that it really means the person has real affection for me, i just say it as a courtesy. Why? It's not a courtesy. If you don't feel it, don't say it. I agree. If you don't feel it; don't say it. I hate insincerity.

haridassk Joined Sat 10/30/10 Posts: 23	Sun 12/26/10 03:12 AM Edited by haridassk on Sun 12/26/10 03:16 AM
I don't understand what you're trying to say. How many meanings does Love have? In how many ways has someone told you they Loved you? How many times have you thought Love ment something else. How many times have you just said it because someone else said it to you. Its just overused. So unless i feel that it really means the person has real affection for me, i just say it as a courtesy. Oh, I see. You say it even though you don't really mean it. LOVE MAY BE SAME BUT IT HAS DIFFERENT COLORS WORDS MAY BE SAME BUT IT HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS PEOPLE FEEL OTHERS SHOULD BE GOOD TO LOVE IT IS TRUE IT BRINGS OUT BEST WHEN BOTH SIDES ARE GOOD BUT IT IS ALSO TRUE WHEN YOU HAVE IT YOU WON'T PUT CONDITIONS IT WILL HAPPEN YOU FEEL FREE AND FULL AND IN HIGHER ECSTASY