TY, TY, TY, so very much! Love the drool! Really I do!

some interesting insights, and of course not surprised that guys like provocative photos. Personally though, there are plenty of places they can go to look at cleavage. My profile isn't going to be one of them, nor is my cleavage going to be on display for an array of strangers (half prolly underage).

It's not confidence - that's crap (IMO). I actually have a pretty decent rack, but it is for my man. Not the whole world. have some dignity people. How we display ourselves on here says volumes for our own self respect as well as our priorities.

That said, I don't think it hurts to have 1 or 2 sexy pics if someone just wants to show off a little - if they work out, or just lost a bunch of weight - keeping a buff bod after the age of 30 or 40 is a pretty big accomplishment. but there's a difference between a sexy photo to brag with, and showing Just too much skin to be dignified. I also think it helps to have other photos that show different facets of a person too though - just my thoughts

really didn't mean to slobber all over you

So, given that I mostly agree with you and that this is my most provocative pic I am curious as to what you think of it. Prov wise? I didn't see it as provocative till I posted it the first time and got the response I did...just thought I looked happy... and truthfully to thin for most tastes....

it's lovely photo of a lady who is beautiful on the inside. I do not see it as provocative (IMO) but more as an expression of a certain kind of relaxed femininity that any man would find attractive, seamac

Why even worry about what pictures other women are posting? Just because you have different views on what kinds of pictures to use does not make someone else wrong if they're using a picture you don't approve of. Only three posts and already accusing others of low self esteem, huh?

Thank you all for being so honest about your feelings. I enjoyed listening to the different views. Have a great evening! ;)
P.s. how do you guys put all the cute smileys on your posts??

When you post, up on the top left is a "add smiley" thinging in red, just click on it and go to it!


Looking forward to seeing you on here lots! I promise you that there are great people here, bring your sense of humor!!!!

I think it's interesting that your only reasoning for sexy pictures is if someone has lost a bunch of weight and want to show off.

How much is "too much skin to be dignified?"

IDK - that's a good question, and certainly subjective. My reasoning is more an attempt at understanding than justification - at least in my original intent. It is one potential reason I mention perhaps because I have friends who have gone thru serious trauma and surgery including drastic weight loss. I was perhaps thinking of them - but IDK, really.

It's just not something I am into (posting skin of myself). To me it seems undignified. I would have said the same thing when I was 25. You seem contentious tonight. that's my final answer, in any case Singme

I see you have very nice horns

Statistically speaking, provacative pics = attention. Of course, you put a pic of you in a bra and panties, and thousands of trolls on this site will whack off to it. And then when they are done, they will email you and tell you all about the whack off episode. Now, that might sound bad, but.....but....out of all those freaks who sling it to your provacative pic, there is gonna be a few who like what they see, and will email you with an intelligent email. Of course, a few of these dudes will be players, and they probably jacked it to your pic, but hey....it's all a numbers game right? And, if for any other reason, know that you are contributing to helping men across the world stroke it. So, in reality, you are helping out humanity. You are serving your fellow man, and avoiding an STD. Anyways, what am I saying here? I don't know.

I am not to worried about other people's pics. (Granted, I may roll my eyes or think what a 'ho', every once in a while.) But, the main thing is you generally get back what you reflect into the world (and online, but online is debateable). So, if you are looking for intelligence and respect.... show that and hopefully it will come to you.

Welcome to the site.... hope to see you on the forums more often.

Towel pics for instance, def not provocative

Very funny and point well taken but the idea of someone doing that because of a picture is not appealing to me at all. I am really pleased to see this site has forums to chat and meet new people rather than just looking at pictures of guys and reading the "sales pitch" pick me, pick me.

Two words...sex sells

Some other words...some use them because we (guys) are pigs and they know we will stop and look. Others are more diabolical than that. They hide in the bushes and once they see our attention has been directed at the flesh, they try and hit us over the head with all that “intelligence and personality crap.” These are the sneaky ones we secretly share the names of off the site...you know, just to warn the others.

howdy ma`am

and welcome to mingles2:



ones idea of a provocative pic verys alot.....

...but i do see wat u mean. but just like the others have said. some pic`s r just for fun. some to get lots of mail from us perves.. :) jokeing.. come hang out on here, most ppl r kool as a fann. every body has a place they can fit inn. even a ugly guy like me gets a responce..lol

I love provacative pics,,,they steam up my glasses

Thank you!