Sorry i Deleted it. I feel so umcomfortable putting person problems on here. Thank you both. Those are great advice. Specially the apartment thing! Never even thought about that!

Tysvm!

Hi Bella, that's a tough one for sure. My mother has very similar ideas to your boyfriend's mom. It is hard to accept and live with, as somehow I turned out the complete opposite.

So my advice, try it for awhile and see how it goes. But have a talk with her beforehand about how it's going to be, set some rules. You have to do that with anyone you bring into your private space. She will know you care about her because you are willing to try it out. But your world does not revolve around her; there are other people in your life. On the other hand, if you think it will tear your family apart, maybe you shouldn't. Like you said she has money. You can just continue to visit her frequently.

The above is good advice.. you have to talk and set rules before moving her in.. She is not old at 64 and maybe she would be happy to just live close by in her own apartment or house...She can still visit alot but shouldnt cause problems when you have company.. At almost 69, I hope I never have to live with my kids and I love them to pieces...lol I want my space...