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Edited by
eileena9
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Fri 12/03/10 02:00 PM
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suppose you get a message from a guy/girl and they really are not the type of guy/girl that you date A) should you answer them anyways, and explain to them "hi but you are really not my type of guy." B) ignore their message. C) answer and message them back and forth. D) pretend that they really are your type of person and plan a meeting with them even though you know its not going to go anywhere. A---only if it looks like it was a generic email sent out to a bunch of random people telling me how they loved my profile and want to get to know me better because we would be such a great match....(they didn't read my profile) B---if it is a message to hook-up or a spammer C---if it is someone I think I could become friends with, as long as they understand I am already taken and am just looking for FRIENDS D---tell them that you are just looking for friends and are willing to meet for coffee or a quick lunch with no other strings or intentions attached. oh and if it's from jt....keep promising him a boob shot but never take down his email address.   
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If it is from someone I 'know' from the forums I always respond. If it from someone who sees my pic and wants to get it on...never respond. Someone 25 years or so younger than I, may respond because I am flattered and astonished, but with a no thanks. Any one in between I take on an individual basis, usually a nice thanks but no thanks kinda note.
But then I am here for the forums, not to find true love so maybe I have it easier just saying no. |
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C is the best option, but I've done B before
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They have to give me their credit card no. if they want to go private!
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I never get any messages to say I am not interested to...which is what I would do...the cold shoulder makes me nuts
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suppose you get a message from a guy/girl and they really are not the type of guy/girl that you date A) should you answer them anyways, and explain to them "hi but you are really not my type of guy." B) ignore their message. C) answer and message them back and forth. D) pretend that they really are your type of person and plan a meeting with them even though you know its not going to go anywhere. A---only if it looks like it was a generic email sent out to a bunch of random people telling me how they loved my profile and want to get to know me better because we would be such a great match....(they didn't read my profile) B---if it is a message to hook-up or a spammer C---if it is someone I think I could become friends with, as long as they understand I am already taken and am just looking for FRIENDS D---tell them that you are just looking for friends and are willing to meet for coffee or a quick lunch with no other strings or intentions attached. oh and if it's from jt....keep promising him a boob shot but never take down his email address.
why be so mean? 
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