there was a guy that i met 13yrs ago i had met him shortly after a old bf and i broke up. we wernt really together but i knew how he felt towards me and he had a great sense of humor

but any how the last 5-6months or so we had been talking and we barly just got together the last month or so
well i knew something was up by the way he was acting

and today he was totally ignoring my calls and wouldnt even respond back and i get a email saying something about he doesnt answer his phone while he in church unless its his mom (well ok i can understand that) but then he said something about more info in the letter (what letter) i had feeling something was up like the relationship would be ending.. well guess what he email me the copy of the dang letter to let me know that his ex of 6years are getting back together and there now engaged they have been working the details out the past 3 days... well ok that explain why he hasent been contacting me.... but yet it shows how much of a dang chicken he is by not telling me in person.. that would had been appreciated more..

but you know the funny thing is (in some degree) is that i went back to the ex 13yrs ago and i hurt this guy and i knew it and i knew my mistake and now hes going back to his ex. and im not even talking nor do i know where the old bf is and i really dont care

but you know what u can say he was a great guy had a great sense of humor and if i had not messed up 13yrs ago maybe it would had been differnt but you know i dont care.

im not going to chase anyone i dont need to.. there is no point...

you can not bathe in the same river twice.....

...I dont understand why people go back to Ex's...it didnt work the first time why bother trying to make it work the second time? Move forward, leave the past where it belongs...the future is bright (dont forget to wear your shades)....

i still talk to several of my exs
i still talk to my very first bf when i was 16yrs old...
were still good friends after 30yrs. but i cant see myself going back to him (which it was never brought up)

some people think it would change the 2nd time around sometime it does and sometimes it doesnt

(explain why i shouldnt forget to wear my shades) i dont need to cover anything

Good advice...but it is falling on deaf ears.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qrriKcwvlY

You know what? take it from someone who has been dumped on. It will not be the first time nor it will be the last. It happens all of the time. People will be who they are no matter what you do or say. If you give up, you are hurting yourself, those who depends on you and then the people you come into contact with will not understand. Believe it or not, it effects everything you will do for a little bit. IT is natural to want to leave men alone after something like this. Be patient, work thru this(it is sort of like working throught grief after a death or something like that), decide how much time you need and then take it. Don't be afraid to seek help from those close to you or friends you trust. As I have said, I have been through it. Best of all, you still can live your life on your terms. Best of luck through all of this and keep your head held high. You did nothing wrong, SO DON'T BLAME YOURSELF FOR THIS!!!

Blame myself?? for what and why should i...

This thread depressed me...

I broke up with fiance 4 months ago, we were together 7 years,
it will never heal im afraid. I must move on but feel trapped in the past or limbo or something.

I feel for you...

Sounds Like the sorta thing that always happened in my High Schools or high schools in general. It's just the simple fact that people lose interest, but then they go around and are still interested in finding somebody more interesting. Get what I'm saying chachie?? To be on top of it all you have to be socially active - and I dont mean texting!! So many people are forgetting how to socialize simply because they don't get enough of it and are always texting on their phones. its ********, I would much rather talk to a girl then text it. Words coming from your mouth bring so much more emphasis to the atmosphere then just sending someone a message through a cell phone. People are not like me, and dont understand me so thats the reason im single - plus all the girls go for the ******** anyway