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Topic: CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
frankfk's photo
Sat 06/30/07 07:28 PM
A person visited the matchmaker for marriage and requested, i am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one. Your requirements please, oh good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if i don't get out. Telling me interesting stories when i need them and be silent when i want to rest, don't say no to me, when i will in sexual mood. The matchmaker listened carefully and replied. I understand sir, you need a television not a spouse.

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husbands and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife.

Many couples are blind and deaf during the courting phase and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

Dayv's photo
Sat 06/30/07 07:29 PM
Again Frank pulls off one of his deep thoughts....Nice, I like it, so, so true!drinker

frankfk's photo
Sat 06/30/07 07:32 PM
Thank you Dayv

unsure's photo
Sat 06/30/07 07:35 PM
OMG you are so right there! Love is blind...to bad we can't see it while we are going through it!!! I think we do finally see it as we get older and wiser, maybe thats why we are single now :wink:

no photo
Sat 06/30/07 07:37 PM
hey-hey-hey-----i'm blind and deaf here---or are ya talkin about people in the need of wakin' up and smell the bird's crap?--lol--sorry for the word-----uh--what?--

frankfk's photo
Sat 06/30/07 07:39 PM
unsure, it is so true, tks for the wiser comments, ur insight is highly appreciated from my end.

bamabeecee's photo
Sat 06/30/07 08:33 PM
The perfect relationship is one where you accept and love each other's imperfections. :smile: :wink:

no photo
Sun 07/01/07 10:46 AM
Edited by Alanna77 on Sun 07/01/07 07:14 PM
i don't believe there is a perfect relationship every one has it's faults you just fall in love you can't help who it is if they are good looking or not if they are rich or not those things just don't matter

Native_Grl39's photo
Sun 07/01/07 11:51 AM
Edited by Native_Grl39 on Sun 07/01/07 08:19 PM
I agree there is never a perfect relationship...The test of a relationship is not whether there are any problems because it's a given there will be...BUT how you choose to handle them and overcome them as a couple!!!!!


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oldsage's photo
Sun 07/01/07 11:53 AM
Edited by oldsage on Sun 07/01/07 08:21 PM
Native, think you make a VERY good point. A relationship is what 2 people make of it.

Native_Grl39's photo
Sun 07/01/07 12:00 PM
Edited by Native_Grl39 on Sun 07/01/07 08:28 PM
Thanx sage...It always takes 2...If one doesn't want a resolution the other can't sustain the relationship by themselves!!!!!!!!


flowerforyou drinker

widowerseeking's photo
Sun 07/01/07 01:22 PM
Edited by widowerseeking on Sun 07/01/07 09:50 PM
native, you do make sense, no relationship is perfect, but if the two people in it try, they can make it seem to be perfect.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/01/07 03:39 PM
Edited by TxsGal3333 on Mon 07/02/07 12:07 AM
Is there such a thing as a perfect relationship? I think it actually has more to do with two people that have learned not to look for perfections but to look for one that makes you happy. And can look past your flaws as well as you can look past theres. Two that enhances each other and don't bring the other one down. That will say they will always be there for you and really know the meaning of those words. When they say I Love you it's from the heart not just words to say.bigsmile flowerforyou

daleray1606's photo
Sun 07/01/07 03:41 PM
Edited by daleray1606 on Mon 07/02/07 12:09 AM


I agree with Native and Txgal

iRon's photo
Sun 07/01/07 03:43 PM
Edited by iRon on Mon 07/02/07 12:11 AM
If two people are working for a happy ending TOGETHER ,hat is as perfect as it gets......happy

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/01/07 03:47 PM
Edited by TxsGal3333 on Mon 07/02/07 12:15 AM
Perfect is sitting back in your rocking chair in your Golden Years. As you look at each other and they can still make your eyes light up and bring a smile to your face. As your heart beats faster and thinking I'm right were I'm suppose to be. LIFE IS GREAT~!!!!bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

LAMom's photo
Mon 07/02/07 07:27 PM
Awwwwwwww (((( Puddin Cup ))))) Now thats perfect

heatherrae's photo
Mon 07/02/07 07:29 PM
and now deep thoughts, with jack handy.

the birds seemed to be calling his name thought caw.

frankfk's photo
Mon 07/02/07 07:32 PM
THX AGAIN HEATHERRAE

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Mon 07/02/07 08:10 PM
dude what r u doing here so late?
greetings by the way laugh

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