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Topic: why cant i find a woman to keep me interested for more than
LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/16/10 03:12 PM

i have had long lasting relationship ,. But always get bord! how can i keep the flame lit. I just dont see how couples do it! I go from being in love to just loving what happens to them like a friend. what is that?


What part of the relationship you get bored with is the key? There are a few components to a relationship. Let's take for example, communication is one and sex is another. What is it that you become bored with?

PA_of_2's photo
Tue 11/16/10 03:18 PM
Well I know if you are in relationships based on looks, tends to get real boring. The whole "my type" thing is really overrated. I know, same **** different day, but Its amazing how attractive a man or woman can be when you get to know them.
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Ken4play's photo
Wed 11/17/10 06:20 AM


why cant i find a woman to keep me interested
for more than
i have had long lasting relationship ,.
But always get bord! how can i keep the flame lit.
I just dont see how couples do it! I go from
being in love to just loving what happens to
them like a friend. what is that?

I am going to guess that you are boring.
Relying on someone else to make you whole.
Ebb and flow.
Be the paddle.
quit the opposite! I'm a leader in fun and spontanious,adventurous,and dareing.love to live on the edge.love to travel.I have all the outdoor toys such as jet sky,bikes,camper,love to white water raft.I dont mind being indoors once in a while but more the get out and do something guy

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Wed 11/17/10 06:25 AM

quit the opposite! I'm a leader in fun and spontanious,adventurous,and dareing.love to live on the edge.love to travel.I have all the outdoor toys such as jet sky,bikes,camper,love to white water raft.I dont mind being indoors once in a while but more the get out and do something guy


Then you should have no problem keeping things interesting in a relationship and not getting bored. But, since you are having a problem with it, it's probably the type of women you're choosing.

It's easy to say you're not boring and list all those things you enjoy doing, but if you're getting bored in relationships quickly, you may want to look at yourself to figure out why.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 11/17/10 06:25 AM
JUST RELAX!..............


stop trying to anaylze the whole thing......

if ya get bored than she is probably just not for you!


Sometimes..............


ya gotta go through a hell of alota pricks before ya find the rose!!:heart:

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Wed 11/17/10 06:39 PM

I was planing on deleting my profile but before i do..i just want to get honest opinions. A better look at myself.. Maybe i'm the problem idk.
YES! you r a problem!!laugh

when men ur age - well any age really - pose the question you've asked, the only real answer I can give u is the truth, but you prolly WONT like it.

You do not see us as people. u see us a vehicles of ur sexual pleasure and when that dies down u want to move on. we really aren't people with feelings, thoughts and meaning to you.

My recommendation is that u forgo sex for a little while and develop some REAL friendships with a few womem or just one. If you can.

and sure, you were prolly socialized to see women like this in whatever backward chavinistic culture u come from, but by ur age there is no more excuse to have not developed a more humane view of women. We are ur equals, some of us are smarter than you too. But most of us won't put up with u for long if it becomes apparent that the only thing u want from us is sex. no one wants to be dehumanized that way - and despite all of the silliness on here, I don't think men what that kind of dehumanization either

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