I don't know how many saw some of my earlier posts the last
couple days, but my mom is in the hospital. She has been kind
of up and down in her progress, but I just got off the phone
with her doctor a few minutes ago, and not only is she down
again, but they are pretty much saying she has between a couple
days and maybe two weeks. She has a lot of scar tissue and some
fluid in her lungs from the congestive heart failure, and the
lungs and heart are more weak than they were before she went in,
also they can't really move her around as the main reason she
went in was for a fall that resulted in her pelvis being fractured
in two places. While they are not positive in their outlook, it
is possible that she could somehow get better, so I'm asking all
of you to send as much energy and prayers her way as you can. I'm
leaving in a minute to go back over there, so I won't be responding
to any of you for a while, but I thank you in advance to all who
might post, and those who don't but send some mentally.

My prayers and thoughts are sending

u deffently have my prayers

Angels watch over

love and light

Divine Physician and Healer of the sick, we turn to you in this time of illness. O dearest comforter of the troubled, alleviate our worry and sorrow with your gentle love, and grant us the grace and strength to accept this burden. Dear God, we place our worries in your hands. We place our sick under your care and humbly ask that you restore your servant to health again. Above all, grant us the grace to acknowledge your will and know that whatever you do, you do for the love of us. Amen.

wish you the best and sending you prayers

prayers being sent

Positive thoughts and energy sent.

Thank you to all. A little update...she is, for the moment,kind
of sedated and is out of it but stable, even if it is at a crappy
level still. They'll continue the various treatments, and pain
control, and hope for the best-I'll keep everyone updated.

It's been a really crappy week in general, though all else pales
compared to this. The only other family I have is my brother that
I have never met that lives in Iowa and is in bad health himself,
and my kids & grandkids, who I don't really want to rely on as
I don't want to have them anymore involved than they have to be
for obvious reasons. So I have to kind of be going through this
alone and I am so effing scared, and falling apart is not even
an option. She's been in bad health for years, as long as I can
remember, and even though I would give anything to have her stay,
I know she needs to go, but I don't know how to let her, I don't
know what I'm going to do without her, and am feeling lost here.

{{{{{Indigo}}}}}

Thoughts and prayers go out for you and for your Mom. I know people will disagree with me for saying this, but I believe that our loved ones hang on until we are able to accept that they just can't stand the pains that hanging on for "us" put them in.

If you need to talk, hun, let me know.

My heart and prayers go out to your Mom & your family at this time.... may the Angels look out for her...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

Many prayers for you and your loved ones.

sending postive thoughts and prayers your way.

I am thinking of you and your Mom. I am praying for you.
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Thank you so much, and I agree with you. She did hang on until
we had a little more closure with her leaving, and some other
things that I won't go into on here, but kind of "worked out"
while she was there. One of the things she would often say was
that she didn't want to leave until we were all happy and
settled, and after a series of "coincidental" events over the
last week, the last one of which came to a conclusion just before
midnight...she passed.

That's why I haven't been on since my last post because
I've stayed right at the hospital with her. She passed Friday
night just after midnight, although we stayed with her until
around 4 am.

Again, thank you to all who sent wishes and prayers.

MY heart thoughts and prayers are there for U and your family!!!!

My prayers to you all, I do understand how some of this feels.