Topic: FRIENDSHIP N LOVE.
popcornncoke's photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:30 PM
Define A True Friendship. Then Define True Love.

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:31 PM
One in the same.

Of course...no one really likes my definition of love anymore than they would enjoy my definition of friendship. **** 'em.

no photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:32 PM
if I knew, do you think Id be here...?
:tongue:

chelsea466's photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:39 PM
Edited by chelsea466 on Fri 11/05/10 09:40 PM
Fear To each their own. Who has the right to tell you your opinion is right or wrong! I mean seriously it's what you feel in your heart is right and that is what it is to you and no one else.



Now friendships and love are the same. Honesty, loyalty, communication, dedication, happiness, devotion, time, effort, laughter, etc...


Goofball73's photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:42 PM
True Friendship? They buy a six pack of Guiness.

True Love? They buy a case of Guiness!
:thumbsup:

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:43 PM

Fear To each their own. Who has the right to tell you your opinion is right or wrong! I mean seriously it's what you feel in your heart is right and that is what it is to you and no one else.



Now friendships and love are the same. Honesty, loyalty, communication, dedication, happiness, devotion, time, effort, laughter, etc...




That's my logic.

Doesn't bother me, I just hate having to debate my way around my opinion.smokin

chelsea466's photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:48 PM


Fear To each their own. Who has the right to tell you your opinion is right or wrong! I mean seriously it's what you feel in your heart is right and that is what it is to you and no one else.



Now friendships and love are the same. Honesty, loyalty, communication, dedication, happiness, devotion, time, effort, laughter, etc...




That's my logic.

Doesn't bother me, I just hate having to debate my way around my opinion.smokin


I saw that in another thread. Some people just need to keep going about there business and not worry about what everyone else believes. Everyone deserves to be appreciated and respected for who they are and not have to justify themself.

Swimforrealsgirl's photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:52 PM

Define A True Friendship. Then Define True Love.


They're the same. True love means you're willing to wal up a mountain just to watch the sunrise. True friendhsip means you are willing to walk dow just to watch the sunset.

kundan_kane's photo
Fri 11/05/10 09:52 PM
There is no measurement unit for true friendship and true love. I only know that with both ( True friendship and True love ) we can spend our life happily

ron62449's photo
Sat 11/06/10 11:41 AM
True love needs friendship, but friendship does not need true love. I read somewhere "True love is friendship gone wild"

Ron

fireflysgirl's photo
Sat 11/06/10 11:47 AM

True love needs friendship, but friendship does not need true love. I read somewhere "True love is friendship gone wild"

Ron


well put Ron!

no photo
Sat 11/06/10 04:40 PM
a true friend will help you bury a body
a true love will be faithful until your release

no photo
Sat 11/06/10 04:51 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 11/06/10 04:53 PM

Define A True Friendship. Then Define True Love.


first, OP - I love the blouse in ur photo - beautiful

2nd - I did not read what anyone else put cuz this is one ofthose topics where I don't want any influence

True Friendship - acting in the best interests of the other. sometimes taking it on the chin for the other. keeping things posistive and hopeful. can call to talk w/out worrying ur bothering them. takes u as u r

True love ^see above + a splash of chemistry:heart:

popcornncoke's photo
Mon 11/08/10 08:07 PM


Define A True Friendship. Then Define True Love.


first, OP - I love the blouse in ur photo - beautiful

2nd - I did not read what anyone else put cuz this is one ofthose topics where I don't want any influence

True Friendship - acting in the best interests of the other. sometimes taking it on the chin for the other. keeping things posistive and hopeful. can call to talk w/out worrying ur bothering them. takes u as u r

True love ^see above + a splash of chemistry:heart:
Thank-You, It is one of my favorite's and blue is my best color. Talking about Friendship,I met a guy on here in 2007 and we wrote 100 page letters,send cards,phone calls and presents.we knew each other life story and he even came to meet me this year. We decide that we were better off as friends only. Then a few months ago,he met this girl and he calls me and tell me,she doesn't want him to have anything else to do with me. I was upset,I thought that our friendship really meant something to him.After 3 and half years, I deserve better than that. I do wish him happiness,I just feel so betray. True Love,I had it once and then I lost it and for 26 yrs,I have been searched for it.

Johnyjuan's photo
Mon 11/08/10 08:09 PM
A friend = friends

A Girl friend = Friend + a litle somthing on the side ;)

hailmary4jp's photo
Tue 11/09/10 09:50 AM
True Friendship - Relationship, Trust, Accountability True friendship involves relationship. Those mutual attributes we mentioned above become the foundation in which recognition transpires into relationship. Many people say, "Oh, he or she's a good friend of mine," yet they never take time to spend time with that "good friend." Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other's growth. while True love is a Sex is not love! Our culture has taught us that sex and love are one in the same. This is a lie. Sex is a beautiful God-given activity that is wonderful when practiced within the boundaries of a Biblical marriage. Sex is the completion of the binding of two people within Biblical marriage; it is a God-given gift.
PRE-MARITAL SEX
Because premarital sex is not love, it only leads to pain and disappointment for those who are seeking that love. The Bible says that when two people are married, they become one flesh (Ephesians 5:31). Sex is consummation of that union. When two people break off their relationship after having sex, it is like ripping apart flesh. This is why two teenagers will struggle so much and become so dependent on those they give their bodies to. In light of I Corinthians 13:4-8 (above), it is easy to see that premarital sex is not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. It is not love!Any friendship that goes with sex is not true friend or true love. It's a "LUST" that's all I can say about True friend and True Love............Be true to love and love will be true to you.....

fireflysgirl's photo
Tue 11/09/10 11:20 AM
I don't beleive that marriage makes love & sex any different!

Marriage is only a symbol of the promises made by lovers.

A true friend can easily be a lover and remain a true friend as well.

When it comes to love, there are no rules that can restrict it! I had pre-marital sex with the ex hubby & it was just as great as the sex when we were married! Now, he made mistakes & is in prison! I was left in a difficult position and made the choice to divorce him, but today (5yrs after I walked away)-I still love him just as much no matter that society thinks I should not!

I honestly thought, like a high school crush, I would eventually get over him & I did not! He feels the same way, so here lies a bond that we both thought we could break. We both tried moving on and have withstood tremendous hardships, yet there lies that flame and 2 friends needing each other heal!

That is LOVE and Friendship! Married or not it does not change.