Topic: Not saying goodbye to someone
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Thu 11/04/10 04:23 PM
Edited by PacificHeights on Thu 11/04/10 04:24 PM
Evening all,

Something I'd like to get your opinions on.It concerns a friend/ ex work colleague of mine.I knew her for a couple of years as we worked in the same company before I had to leave as the recession hit.We were always just friends & never romantically involved(She was in a relationship).That aside though we always got on well and even though I fancied the pants off her it never got in the way of being friends.I didn't see her for a while until we ran into one another on the street about 3 months ago.We spoke briefly and she told me she was moving back home.Here is the thing though.I never said goodbye to her properly and I regret it big time now ! I may never see her again.Your thoughts ??

Pacific Heights

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Thu 11/04/10 04:31 PM
find her and say goodbye....is she on facebook or something....you should try and say goodbye. If you don't get to at least you tried. No room for regret you know ;)

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Thu 11/04/10 04:40 PM
There is nothing wrong with attempted to fulfill that which you desire, in fact bringing closer may just open another door. Take Countrydawn advice.

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Thu 11/04/10 05:24 PM
Friends come and go just be thankful they touched your life if only for a moment...... One never knows when another will cross your path again...... bigsmile

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Fri 11/05/10 08:29 PM
what do u have to lose by contacting her and telling her just how u feel? perhaps she is available now and this is ur 1 chance

let us know what happens - this could relly be a romantic ending!!

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Fri 11/19/10 02:45 PM
Thanks for the replies.It's probably unfortunate I didn't say goodbye properly but alas that's what happened.Circumstances just conspired against romance.I'm glad I met her though !

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Fri 11/19/10 03:04 PM

Friends come and go just be thankful they touched your life if only for a moment...... One never knows when another will cross your path again...... bigsmile


I have to agree,,, its in the crossing that makes the journey of life incredible,,, I wish you well on your journey flowerforyou

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Fri 11/19/10 05:29 PM
Don't dwell on it...you may never forgive yourself.

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Mon 11/22/10 03:54 PM

Don't dwell on it...you may never forgive yourself.


I'm usually good at not dwelling on stuff so I should be ok :)

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Tue 11/23/10 12:33 AM
ya it defineatly sure not say goodbye to any one coz have tio meet again.drinker

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Mon 11/29/10 03:48 PM
Yes one never knows when you will run into old friends again.