i wanted to ask would u stay with someone only for there money, the guy i am with is a great guy but i feel like he is controling every thing in my life and i don't know what to do, i am all most scar to leave him and i don't have any place to go or have money

take his money,
and then go.

the thing is i have no car, and i don't even know how to drive, i know it's bad really

The weather is turning colder every day. If you can put up with it as long as you are not in danger in any way. Start finding work. Look to lady friends for some housing. Call your parents for help. Hope it all works out for you.

my dad die when i was 15, and me and mom don't even talk i don't know where she is

My heart goes out to you dear lady. Have any friends?

maybe i can go see the cops about this, it's that bad

Go to the Womens groups an ask for help. Look them up on the computer in your area. Or try 211 for information, and numbers to call for assistance. If you are in danger call the police in the next second indeed.

do it. do it now. the officers will be able to steer you to a woman shelter and they can provide additional help. don't live in fear, there are many places that can provide professional counsel and many programs to help you get back on your feet. government assistance is not meant to be looked down on, but widespread abuse has brought images of low class citizens. damn the torpedos don't be shamed into not using these avenues for aide. once you get on these programs your friends and family will ralley. if you need more friends, there are plenty on here. i guarantee i guarantee (that's the bulldog double guarantee patent pending) you can do it girl! let me know.

Very well said sir.

i notice you very often post from the heart. my hat's off to you.

Thank you sir, The very same to you.