Life has its good moments and its bad moments but if we dwell on the bad we become consumed by it.We cant get that bad moment out of are heads. If we don't try to overcome it or ask for help we become a shell of what we use to be. We don't let anything in or out of are world and become bitter and sore toward others. however on the other hand if we dwell on the good moments we tent to become conceited and self centered. We also think we are always right and in turn don't let other in are life and also become a shell of are former self's. we all have to learn to just take life how it comes and don't dwell on the moments in it. we can remember the good and forget the bad. we can even be prod of the god and dwell on it a little but not too much but it is up to each person to find there own limit. that is also why i think their is good in all people but some are just so consumed be the bad or good moments that they become ugly to be around if we and grasp this we will in turn became a stronger society.