Topic: define love
motowndowntown's photo
Mon 11/01/10 05:25 PM
Love is not having to explain what love is to each other.

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Mon 11/01/10 05:26 PM
I'm thinking they were not nostrils....noway

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Mon 11/01/10 05:26 PM

Love is not having to explain what love is to each other.
:thumbsup:

DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 11/01/10 05:28 PM
Last time i felt Love it was like a kick in the balls

It took me a while to get back up


I'm just being honest :angel:

fireflysgirl's photo
Mon 11/01/10 05:31 PM

Love is like a friendship caught on fire.


i like this-LOL

DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 11/01/10 05:33 PM

Love feels like.....


Luis!!bigsmile :heart:


:heart: blushing flowerforyou

davidben1's photo
Mon 11/01/10 05:41 PM
not wanting any emotion from another human being for oneself.

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Mon 11/01/10 05:43 PM

Last time i felt Love it was like a kick in the balls

It took me a while to get back up


I'm just being honest :angel:
it's OK - not a good place to be (kicked in the cohones)IDK if that's spelled OK or not - usually after you stand back up it's also time to reach around and grab the knife out of ur back B4 u can start healing. IME

glad u r here talking & meeting new friends!flowerforyou

chelsea466's photo
Mon 11/01/10 05:46 PM
Edited by chelsea466 on Mon 11/01/10 05:48 PM
Love is that take your breath away give you bitterflies in your stomach feeling. When your lips touch its like floating ona cloud high above everything else where all your worries go away and nothing else matters. It means waking up and going to sleep cuddled up by that someone next to you is the single most perfect moment together. There is no arguing, fighting, talking, but just silence. Two hearts beating together into one.

Love is never having to say I'm sorry or question or explain yourself or anything. It's never feeling judged, disrespected, dishonest or unfaithfull. It always trusts, believes and has hope. It never gives up and always keeps moving forward patiently. It is gentle, kind and not selfish but most importantly it also brings laughter and joy to your heart.

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Mon 11/01/10 05:51 PM

Love is that take your breath away give you bitterflies in your stomach feeling. When your lips touch its like floating ona cloud high above everything else where all your worries go away and nothing else matters. It means waking up and going to sleep cuddled up by that someone next to you is the single most perfect moment together. There is no arguing, fighting, talking, but just silence. Two hearts beating together into one.

Love is never having to say I'm sorry or question or explain yourself or anything. It's never feeling judged, disrespected, dishonest or unfaithfull. It always trusts, believes and has hope. It never gives up and always keeps moving forward patiently. It is gentle, kind and not selfish but most importantly it also brings laughter and joy to your heart.


Oh Chelsea, that is lovely!! I especially like the part about falling asleep & waking up together as being the most perfect moments. that is so true - just looking at each other right before u fall asleep or when u wake up & realize that he's there

DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 11/01/10 05:56 PM


Last time i felt Love it was like a kick in the balls

It took me a while to get back up


I'm just being honest :angel:
it's OK - not a good place to be (kicked in the cohones)IDK if that's spelled OK or not - usually after you stand back up it's also time to reach around and grab the knife out of ur back B4 u can start healing. IME

glad u r here talking & meeting new friends!flowerforyou


I'm glad i'm here too

It's Cojones actually :wink: laugh

chelsea466's photo
Mon 11/01/10 06:06 PM


Love is that take your breath away give you bitterflies in your stomach feeling. When your lips touch its like floating ona cloud high above everything else where all your worries go away and nothing else matters. It means waking up and going to sleep cuddled up by that someone next to you is the single most perfect moment together. There is no arguing, fighting, talking, but just silence. Two hearts beating together into one.

Love is never having to say I'm sorry or question or explain yourself or anything. It's never feeling judged, disrespected, dishonest or unfaithfull. It always trusts, believes and has hope. It never gives up and always keeps moving forward patiently. It is gentle, kind and not selfish but most importantly it also brings laughter and joy to your heart.


Oh Chelsea, that is lovely!! I especially like the part about falling asleep & waking up together as being the most perfect moments. that is so true - just looking at each other right before u fall asleep or when u wake up & realize that he's there


Thanks sweetest!! Glad to see you appreciate it flowerforyou

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Mon 11/01/10 06:18 PM



Last time i felt Love it was like a kick in the balls

It took me a while to get back up


I'm just being honest :angel:
it's OK - not a good place to be (kicked in the cohones)IDK if that's spelled OK or not - usually after you stand back up it's also time to reach around and grab the knife out of ur back B4 u can start healing. IME

glad u r here talking & meeting new friends!flowerforyou


I'm glad i'm here too

It's Cojones actually :wink: laugh
ya, I thought it might be - anyway that's about the extent of my Spanish - dirty words & anatomyblushing laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Mon 11/01/10 06:20 PM




Last time i felt Love it was like a kick in the balls

It took me a while to get back up


I'm just being honest :angel:
it's OK - not a good place to be (kicked in the cohones)IDK if that's spelled OK or not - usually after you stand back up it's also time to reach around and grab the knife out of ur back B4 u can start healing. IME

glad u r here talking & meeting new friends!flowerforyou


I'm glad i'm here too

It's Cojones actually :wink: laugh
ya, I thought it might be - anyway that's about the extent of my Spanish - dirty words & anatomyblushing laugh


It's cool Sweetest , if you have any questions just ask :wink:

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Mon 11/01/10 06:35 PM





Last time i felt Love it was like a kick in the balls

It took me a while to get back up


I'm just being honest :angel:
it's OK - not a good place to be (kicked in the cohones)IDK if that's spelled OK or not - usually after you stand back up it's also time to reach around and grab the knife out of ur back B4 u can start healing. IME

glad u r here talking & meeting new friends!flowerforyou


I'm glad i'm here too

It's Cojones actually :wink: laugh
ya, I thought it might be - anyway that's about the extent of my Spanish - dirty words & anatomyblushing laugh


It's cool Sweetest , if you have any questions just ask :wink:


ha ha - I just bet you'd love thatlaugh


where were you when we had the naughty boy threads???pitchfork

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Mon 11/01/10 09:11 PM


thats only because people stoped believing in the true love and stopped fighting for the reality of it.


What was the reality of it? How do you believe in an emotion?

This is a counter-argument to hate, love. That is all love is, a placard to an argument brought on by hate. Without hate we wouldn't have love, and without love we wouldn't have hate.

Love is a double-edged blade, on one hand it can bring about great things...but in most cases it just brings about more pain, discouragement, and tension. Just as quick as someone can say "I love him/her" someone can say "I love [insert negative comment]."

This is why the fairy tale definition hasn't stood the test of time, because evolution has surpassed it. Maybe people stopped believing in it, or maybe they stopped fighting for it, but the reality of it all along was that it wouldn't last.


Only reason people stopped is because if you look at all the new stuff we are feeding our childeren it's all garbage in this aspect. this is why people stop believing in their dreams. I may only be 21 but I still belive in the toothfairy and easter bunny.. just because they dont exist we cant believe in them? yes emotions such as love, hate, happy, and sad, can all be felt and seen yet we are not to belive that they exist...

This is what your telling me, and you are here trying to rationalize the yin and yang of love/hate. true without one there is no other. but in order to love someone one must be open enough with themselves, as with to hate someone, they must be able to hate themselves.

Bexter's photo
Tue 11/02/10 03:43 AM
When you love, 'you' is lost. There is no one but the object of your love. Where people went wrong was being willing (and expecting) to give up themselves for the sake of love.
That's not possible.

When you are secure in who you are (regardless of the desire to continue to improve yourself as you mature - a constant process), you can more effectively convince another that you are sincere in loving. Society today does not trust the word because the English language is too restrictive - using the same word for multiple definitions.

Read Erich Fromm: The Art of Loving
It will help.
:thumbsup:





thats only because people stoped believing in the true love and stopped fighting for the reality of it.


What was the reality of it? How do you believe in an emotion?

This is a counter-argument to hate, love. That is all love is, a placard to an argument brought on by hate. Without hate we wouldn't have love, and without love we wouldn't have hate.

Love is a double-edged blade, on one hand it can bring about great things...but in most cases it just brings about more pain, discouragement, and tension. Just as quick as someone can say "I love him/her" someone can say "I love [insert negative comment]."

This is why the fairy tale definition hasn't stood the test of time, because evolution has surpassed it. Maybe people stopped believing in it, or maybe they stopped fighting for it, but the reality of it all along was that it wouldn't last.


Only reason people stopped is because if you look at all the new stuff we are feeding our childeren it's all garbage in this aspect. this is why people stop believing in their dreams. I may only be 21 but I still belive in the toothfairy and easter bunny.. just because they dont exist we cant believe in them? yes emotions such as love, hate, happy, and sad, can all be felt and seen yet we are not to belive that they exist...

This is what your telling me, and you are here trying to rationalize the yin and yang of love/hate. true without one there is no other. but in order to love someone one must be open enough with themselves, as with to hate someone, they must be able to hate themselves.

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Tue 11/02/10 11:05 AM

When you love, 'you' is lost. There is no one but the object of your love. Where people went wrong was being willing (and expecting) to give up themselves for the sake of love.
That's not possible.

When you are secure in who you are (regardless of the desire to continue to improve yourself as you mature - a constant process), you can more effectively convince another that you are sincere in loving. Society today does not trust the word because the English language is too restrictive - using the same word for multiple definitions.

Read Erich Fromm: The Art of Loving
It will help.
:thumbsup:





thats only because people stoped believing in the true love and stopped fighting for the reality of it.


What was the reality of it? How do you believe in an emotion?

This is a counter-argument to hate, love. That is all love is, a placard to an argument brought on by hate. Without hate we wouldn't have love, and without love we wouldn't have hate.

Love is a double-edged blade, on one hand it can bring about great things...but in most cases it just brings about more pain, discouragement, and tension. Just as quick as someone can say "I love him/her" someone can say "I love [insert negative comment]."

This is why the fairy tale definition hasn't stood the test of time, because evolution has surpassed it. Maybe people stopped believing in it, or maybe they stopped fighting for it, but the reality of it all along was that it wouldn't last.


Only reason people stopped is because if you look at all the new stuff we are feeding our childeren it's all garbage in this aspect. this is why people stop believing in their dreams. I may only be 21 but I still belive in the toothfairy and easter bunny.. just because they dont exist we cant believe in them? yes emotions such as love, hate, happy, and sad, can all be felt and seen yet we are not to belive that they exist...

This is what your telling me, and you are here trying to rationalize the yin and yang of love/hate. true without one there is no other. but in order to love someone one must be open enough with themselves, as with to hate someone, they must be able to hate themselves.



ex was in a phsych class n had to read that... not actually all that great in my eyes personally but to each is their own i say.. in the other aspect.. I dislike how you people can be so scientific it about it.. so what if we are made out of...
1.Oxygen (65%)
2.Carbon (18%)
3.Hydrogen (10%)
4.Nitrogen (3%)
5.Calcium (1.5%)
6.Phosphorus (1.0%)
7.Potassium (0.35%)
8.Sulfur (0.25%)
9.Sodium (0.15%)
10.Magnesium (0.05%)
11.Copper, Zinc, Selenium, Molybdenum, Fluorine, Chlorine, Iodine, Manganese, Cobalt, Iron (0.70%)
12.Lithium, Strontium, Aluminum, Silicon, Lead, Vanadium, Arsenic, Bromine (trace amounts)

(Sorry ima geek)

doesn't explain how all that got in us? along with human emotion and what makes everyone different.. everyone is different, and love can be seen in many different ways but with all due respect, no science could ever explain human emotion, it may explain why we do some things certain ways but never explain how human emotion such as love works.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 11/02/10 11:31 AM



thats only because people stoped believing in the true love and stopped fighting for the reality of it.


What was the reality of it? How do you believe in an emotion?

This is a counter-argument to hate, love. That is all love is, a placard to an argument brought on by hate. Without hate we wouldn't have love, and without love we wouldn't have hate.

Love is a double-edged blade, on one hand it can bring about great things...but in most cases it just brings about more pain, discouragement, and tension. Just as quick as someone can say "I love him/her" someone can say "I love [insert negative comment]."

This is why the fairy tale definition hasn't stood the test of time, because evolution has surpassed it. Maybe people stopped believing in it, or maybe they stopped fighting for it, but the reality of it all along was that it wouldn't last.


Only reason people stopped is because if you look at all the new stuff we are feeding our childeren it's all garbage in this aspect. this is why people stop believing in their dreams. I may only be 21 but I still belive in the toothfairy and easter bunny.. just because they dont exist we cant believe in them? yes emotions such as love, hate, happy, and sad, can all be felt and seen yet we are not to belive that they exist...

This is what your telling me, and you are here trying to rationalize the yin and yang of love/hate. true without one there is no other. but in order to love someone one must be open enough with themselves, as with to hate someone, they must be able to hate themselves.


Obviously there is no debate here. Believe what you believe, it doesn't matter to me. Continue to think that there is no logical explanation for love, doesn't matter to me. I'll stick to science books, you can stick to fairy tales.

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Tue 11/02/10 11:41 AM
Fairy tales are the founding system of belief in the unbelievable, and belief that you can do anything you set your mind to. If we all gave up like this, and only believed what was right infront of our eyes, then the world would be at a stand still and we wouldn't achieve anything. All research would stop, all society would cease. If we gave up in our dreams that you so say that we cannot see anything but logic, then there would be no reason to be. We are human by nature, and emotion, willpower, and belief is what drives us to achieve what most would see as unbelievable.

There is your logic behind love.

-Nyko-