damn you got me !(naughty)

I'm sure that you will find that person who will like you as you are I have many friends that are over weight, and I swear I'm jealous because I do martial arts I have the athletic body but the girls still won't come to me.. so trust me you will meet that person ;]] bets of luck to you...

Regardless what size one is or how they look there is someone out there for them. It is those that dwell on their imperfections that are left alone. No one likes being around others that only see the bad things in life...

Look within see the good and let it shine you will be surprised the difference it will make. People tend to lean towards positive people regardless of what they look like....

thats because you look like a girl

well.. if you bring the keg to the party.. you better have the common sense to share the laughter..

First you gotto love yourself before you love others

Well, some chicks look at a guy and think if he cant take care of himself, how will he take care of me? It's a rough and hard statement to accept, but some just see things in that perspective. Other girls don't mind it, though few, and many girls just like someone who has good hygiene and knows how to be funny. Does this help or hinder???

I think it helps

That's not true!

What's not true?

seriously! I can't believe this was posted. I hear chubby men say this all the time. I've been trying to get a fat men my age my whole life. It seems impossible! Fat men are just too picky I guess.lol

I doubt fat men are picky I know i am not

Thats the beauty of meeting people online, they get to know YOU not just what they see.
Sounds like you need to dwell less on your weight issue and more on your good points.
As we get older a lot of women and men start to realize, a lot of the people with the "perfect" bodies
are pretty messed up in other ways. You'll find someone, just need to be more positive.
And you should be picky, don't just settle for just anyone.

This thread is still going on? Confidence can do wonders.

You're right. Its all about confidence and not worrying about what others think of you.
If you can't be happy with yourself and love yourself for who you are then how can you
expect others to? People do pick up on that stuff for sure.

That's not true. My ex was big, Not huge but definitely over weight. I like big guys, where else can you get a good bear hug? Big guys are solid and strong and have substance to them . You don't have to worry about getting messed with when you got a nice corn fed country boy next to you. But like I said even I have my limits, there is a limit for everyone. For me when your weight begins to make you breath heavy and waddle and need help getting around it's time to start walking or taking in less calories. Personally I have to keep my weight in check and it's not always the easiest thing for me to do because I really love food LOL. BUT! I do it anyway because I don't want to be fat. I like my size now, hell when I lose to much weight I lose my assets :( and as I have been told by men, trading your assets for a thinner waste is not the way to go. lol

you'll find someone ...good people do exist and good things do happen to goood people :) be proud of yourself and realize that you have something to offer B-) confidence and just live your life and good things will happen!

cheers buddy! n good luck :)

Exactly. If someone is not happy with themselves, chances are, it will be easy to tell. And that's going to be a big turn off.

Hey - a guy could look like Brad Pitt-but if he didn't treat me right he's not for me!


I think most will agree with that

i wouldn't be with brad pitt no matter what he looked like