Topic: Why I, on the whole, hate people | |
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The truth is ugly...but it can be so liberating, and beautiful..... That's what I intedn to do Live it. Own it. |
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may i ask where in nor cal you're from.
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You're not the first one , you won't be the last one You are funny. Thank ya! |
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may i ask where in nor cal you're from. North Valley, baby. Way up North..... |
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north valley.
whaaa. |
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north valley. whaaa. Where are you from? You don't know where the Norht Valley is? California is a big state, darlin'...heh heh... |
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i'm from crappy northern california.
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i'm from crappy northern california. Redding! |
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I miss Cali
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I miss Cali The West Coast is The Best Coast! I've lived in NY, MD, VA. I always come back home... |
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ah.
redding. been there. i'm from some crappy place near chico. thank goodness i'm not there anymore. however, if i had to choose between nor cal and east coast, i'd go nor cal anyyy day. east coast sucksss. |
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I've been up and down the west coast, I like the mountains the most
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I miss Cali I got out of NJ alive and made it back to sunny southern cali |
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I've been up and down the west coast, I like the mountains the most Speaking of Mountains...I went on a date with a guy I met on this site...we went up to Shasta Caverns for a hike...and a picnic...and OMG! Thke park Rangers locked the gates! We had to call 911, State Troopers..Cops...it was our first and last date... The mountains out here in Redding are unbelievably beautiful... |
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Edited by
AndyBgood
on
Fri 10/22/10 11:44 PM
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I lived in Redding for five years. I wound up moving back to Los Angeles! I missed the beach WAY too much! I gotta have my beach!
Lake Shasta is pretty nice though! |
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I miss Cali I got out of NJ alive and made it back to sunny southern cali It's where the action is.....or at least some of it!!!!!! |
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I lived in Redding for five years. I wound up moving back to Los Angeles! I missed the beach WAY too much! I gotta have my beach! Lake Shasta is pretty nice though! True! That's the 1 draw back. I love the beaches too. Lived in SF for 3 years, and went to the beach nearly everyday. The good news is that I'm about 3 hours South of the beach...and then there is the beautiful Oregon Coastline.... |
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I miss Cali I got out of NJ alive and made it back to sunny southern cali I'm planning my escape Mujer Hermosa |
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I fired a woman tonight. She's in her 40's, has a 17 yr. old daughter, which she is raising on her own. With out going into all the details, shortly after I hired her 6 months ago, her life went to hell. I risked my life AND loaned her over 2 grand to help her out. Because that's what you do when you see someone in need that you can help. Tonight, I got proof that she was stealing from me. Selling merchandise under the counter. I don't know how much, yet. At least $800 so far. I won't know the full extent of her treachery until I do a full inventory. Which will cost me even more money. I'm not helping people any more. Instead, I think I'll just drink alot. It hurts less and never really disappoints. Fnord. (and I'm damn glad I have a backspace button. typing drunk is hard) While I'm totally empathetic to your personal and financial losses.....I think you need to step back and ask yourself..... What did I hope to gain by helping her? Was this friendship driven...or was it merely "fiendship"? Nobody...with all due respect "helps" anyone unless they feel some greater reward in doing so..... What was yours? No need to throw the baby out with the bath water. This will pass. I have been "burned" for much more. Because....in the end, it's not where you start...it's where you end. and nobody gets out of this place ALIVE. W She was not a friend. She was an employee. I barely knew her. I helped her because she needed help. That's what I used to do--help people when the opportunity presented itself. Never again. |
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I have a very tough time hiring people to help me. Likewise I am even more leery of friends working for me. It is tough having to do everything alone because of trust issues.! 2 really fast ways to kill a friendship: Hire them. Lend them money. |
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