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Topic: Dont know what to do????????
Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Tue 10/19/10 10:21 AM
How to get my girlfriend back to liking me and wanting me. Sience we had our second daughter she is so distant, try's to fight with me I do all I can.. Get a maternity test. PAternity test.... .02 My mistake. I'm always asking my mother for a maternity test, especially when what she thinks becomes audible.

flawlessmeans Joined Tue 12/29/09 Posts: 2019	Tue 10/19/10 06:30 PM
joining a dating site probably wouldn't be one of my first suggestions. Wait this is a dateing site I thought it was a mingleing sit... or a place to go to gather information from a collective groupe of people. Just fined a different way to express your love to her my man do something different that you havent done yet make it a compleatly selfless act and shell come back around.

BellaV Joined Sat 09/06/08 Posts: 16223	Wed 10/20/10 05:16 AM
joining a dating site probably wouldn't be one of my first suggestions. lol great answer

faith3 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 3	Sat 10/23/10 10:25 PM
it takes 2 to make an arguement, so if you've been that good man that u know ur sopose to be, start ignoring her, when she argues say nothing, just keep doing what ur sopose to do, then it will be her time to figure u out and trust me when u gets silent that when the scarey part comes im i losing him, argueing only build up resentment between two people, best of luck

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Sat 10/23/10 10:32 PM
Could be postpartum depression.

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Sat 10/23/10 11:06 PM
you say, "how can i get my girlfriend back to LIKING ME, WANTING ME".... so, this show's your most real concern, be about what she can give to YOU. did you say, HOW AND WHAT AM I DOING, THAT TELL'S AND SHOW'S HER I ONLY CARE ABOUT ME MOST? and since you are so staring at good for yourself, you hate any words of criticism from her, or hearing what SHE WANTS, or she would not feel like she has to be sneeky behind your back, or lie to you... you must access, you are MAKING HER AFRAID TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH... you are giving her NEGATIVE FEEDBACK, to anything SHE SAYS, THAT NOT WHAT "YOU WANT"... change these things, and demand and INSIST NOTHING OF HER, and she might believe you actually care about her, for does a women leave or want something esle, if what she had was the best? it's hard no doubt, BUT ACCESS YOURSELF AT FAULT, and you will see how YOU ARE CREATING HER TO DO EXACTELY AS SHE IS. take it or leave it, but the way your thinking now, as reflected in your words, you got nothing ahead except dissapointment, and she as well... just one cent

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 10/24/10 07:26 PM
Yeah thats good idea.. I have been overly nice in the past and owned up to my mistakes, wich were assuming certain things..her being hard headed and denying it to the end.. and later I would find out to be true,, it sounds like she doesn't want the relationship any more. I guess my question is why do u?

lovingboater Joined Sat 02/06/10 Posts: 184	Mon 10/25/10 02:40 AM
Humans have a basic, driving need... Most, do not know what it is they need... so they grope around in the dark, gathering things, or people, to see if that satisfies them. Many will say, talk to her... I would say, LISTEN to her. And in order for that to happen, she MUST trust you... And, from what I have read, that is what she does not do, anymore. Only you, can earn her trust... Have you and are you doing that, to HER definition of the word. JUX, you have to ask yourself some hard questions... and then answer them honestly. To her. Only then, if you have a future, can you once again, BUILD one, together... Now, it is possible, that her hormones have gone wacko... This happened to me with my second wife. Her personality TOTALLY changed. If that's the case, then, unless you can get her to a competent doctor, it's over... I feel for ya, bro... Good luck, to the 4 of you...