which do u prefer? looks,, brains, personality, or good sex?

All of it - the whole package.

I don't believe in settling, compromising or having to barter my affection towards someone.

I was single for 10 years and kept waiting, and waiting. It was worth it.

hitpoints and mana use.

and no double posts.

i have a problem w/screwing good looking womens brains out so i guess that leaves,personality

personality counts more than anything else with me

That is an unfair question...

A plain woman with a good personality is easy to overlook NOT being a swim suit model. Looking like a shaved ape though? That is too much.

Brains are a must for me period. I do not like or care much for stupid people. There is a difference between being raw stupid and being a "blond" or a ditz. I can put up with "blond moments" and ditzy women because sometimes they are deceptively smarter than they come off as.

Good sex? I never count on any woman being good in bed at first. After a while though I can see improvements in performance over time then it is good sex. If she knows what to do out the gate she has had some practice before. Now if it leads to GREAT SEX?



If a woman has brains, and a good personality but is bad in bed she can and will learn to be better in bed later.

If she has looks that is just a HUGE bonus for us men!

I sure hope I am not coming off as a chauvinist pig.

He has got to have all of them.

D: all of the above

It would have to be all three. I can't deal with stupid.

I go for looks first, it's what grabs my (or anyone's attention). I am attracted to smart girls but have dated a few not-so-bright ones let's say. I have a thing for a girl in glasses of course (makes her look smarter, I know it's dumb but I can't help it)

Bottom line, if she's an idiot but hot, heck yeah I'll date her. Marry her? No. I know everyone keeps posting "They have to have everything / all three / yadda yadda" but let's face it.....everyone here has dated people in the past and if any of them were "all of the above" then you wouldn't be here on this site and single. Even though we WANT the other person to be gorgeous / smart / funny / romantic / great in bed / have a nice physique / responsible / kind hearted / faithful / compassionate / etc /etc / etc, you have to decide what trait you PREFER over the others.

OMG, that was just too good.....

well it depends looks are what atract most people to eachother from the get go, but brains are what ceep them together. so for one night stands or eaven friends with bennies, LOOKS. For a long lasting and good relationship Mutual Intellagences.

Oh and looks do help iether way.

good sex.
duh.
who cares about anything else.

Looks are very important however most people don't realize that looks have more to do with what you wear and less about "natural" good looks. My ex was not someone I would have been attracted to but we met online through debate and it was his intelligence that got a date with me. Through our relationship I updated his wardrobe from the 90's (at his own request) and he not only appealed to me due to his intelligence but also physically. A well dressed man can melt a room and if he has confidence to boot he may just be unstoppable.

I demand "Great" sex. All else is just fodder for me.

Aparently updateing my atire will get me to the GOOD SEX part.

I wont wear a suit though to uncomphy.

And yes when I see a well dressed man that peeks my interest I promise you it's not marriage on my mind, it's what it would be like to be with him.
I love a man in a suit....