From what ive found out being on here a few months that being nice gets u nowhere

"nice" is a vague term and very subjective in application...

I find that it's nice to treat people the way you would like to be treated... and chew with your mouth closed

You should be polite, but don't kiss butt. Be your true self and know that if one doesn't bite, there are plenty more.

If you want a different result, try a different approach.

You should be you. If nice is who/how you are then be patient. I hope you weren't just acting 'nice' to get women. Since I dont know you, the topic gave me that vibe...

Poor horse

Umm, yeah, I got nothin'.


What exactly are you referring to? Sending emails that weren't
answered in kind? People being outright rude or indifferent?

If being "nice", which I agree is subjective at best, is how
you are and come across...don't change or get discouraged. Just
like in real life, not everyone else is nice or is going to like
you, and vice versa. Take the "not so nice ones" with a grain of
salt, and appreciate the "nice" ones that reciprocate.

Have never seen you before, but, hi.

speaking from experience - being a complete a**hole gets you nowhere either.

1 view in 3 weeks!

I had to look at that twice to get the meaning point taken

Be True To Yourself!

Being nice is what good people do.. Because we don't get what we want doesn't mean that "nice" isn't working.. Be nice to people and they'll be nice back unless they're jerks then what do you care..

Pssst a few months will be at the end of Nov.. You've been here just over a month.. Give it time...

I don't know if i'm nice

I just know i'm honest and i'd like to treat

People the same way i'm treated

My friends know that.

it all depends on where you are looking to go....

Don't be nice, be REAL. Trust me, someone will gravitate towards you in no time that feels the same way you do.

liking boobies also gets you nowheres