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Topic: Responses from Real People
trvlspec2010 Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 8	Sun 09/26/10 08:46 PM
Can someone answer this true and meaningful question. Why is it when you respond to someone online.....and if for some reason they are not interested....Why dont they just response back stating that they are not interested at this time....oh yeah i forgot maybe some people are not geared up enough to do such a brillant thing. Wow answer my own question....GO Me!

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Sun 09/26/10 08:48 PM
this is a rhetorical post...right??

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 09/26/10 08:49 PM
Actually....no response IS a response. It takes times. Be patient and join in the forums to show people your personality

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sun 09/26/10 08:51 PM Edited by IndnPrncs on Sun 09/26/10 08:53 PM
this is a rhetorical post...right?? I'm thinking you're the winner... Yes, GO YOU!!! Did you stop to think that perhaps, just perhaps some are hesitant to say they're not interested b/c in the past when they have they've received scathing responses? No I'm sure not but GO YOU!!!

trvlspec2010 Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 8	Sun 09/26/10 08:53 PM
thank you. You are right.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sun 09/26/10 08:55 PM
Relax, have fun, join the forums... The best things in life are the ones that we never expected..

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sun 09/26/10 08:58 PM Edited by mightymoe on Sun 09/26/10 08:59 PM
Can someone answer this true and meaningful question. Why is it when you respond to someone online.....and if for some reason they are not interested....Why dont they just response back stating that they are not interested at this time....oh yeah i forgot maybe some people are not geared up enough to do such a brillant thing. Wow answer my own question....GO Me! sometimes i don't answer back... doesn't mean anything but at that time i didn't feel like it... and i would never tell someone i'm not interested just because they sent me an email, it's a little presumptuous to read someones mind. but don't take it so serious, not everyone you email is going to respond, for whatever reason they have most of the women i email on here don't answer back... but there is always some that will...

trvlspec2010 Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 8	Sun 09/26/10 09:03 PM
Thank you. Cool to know.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sun 09/26/10 09:16 PM
Can someone answer this true and meaningful question. Why is it when you respond to someone online.....and if for some reason they are not interested....Why dont they just response back stating that they are not interested at this time....oh yeah i forgot maybe some people are not geared up enough to do such a brillant thing. Wow answer my own question....GO Me! You are new here. Give others time, and by all means come play in the fun discussion threads.

LilOlMeFromSD Joined Sat 01/10/09 Posts: 983	Sun 09/26/10 09:22 PM
Well, to be honest, I am guilty of not responding for several days sometimes. It's usually when I am sick, visiting friends for a weekend or, something like that. A person not responding isn't always due to their rejecting you. Sometimes real life gets in the way and it takes more than a day or two to reply.

trvlspec2010 Joined Sat 09/25/10 Posts: 8	Sun 09/26/10 09:32 PM
Thanks for the offer. I am enjoying this website.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sun 09/26/10 10:50 PM
If being coated in Whipped Cream and sprinkles is fun then I think this compares! Maybe. Then again I think some of the insanity is pretty funny here too! So is this guy!

takeoff13 Joined Sun 09/05/10 Posts: 8	Mon 09/27/10 10:11 AM
looke me up

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Mon 09/27/10 04:11 PM
Can someone answer this true and meaningful question. Why is it when you respond to someone online.....and if for some reason they are not interested....Why dont they just response back stating that they are not interested at this time....oh yeah i forgot maybe some people are not geared up enough to do such a brillant thing. Wow answer my own question....GO Me! Yeah, go you. Nobody is obligated to answer you back.

mikebiro Joined Sun 06/01/08 Posts: 6	Sat 10/02/10 06:13 PM
people that are not forward that they are not interested is quite simple. people are always looking for the number 10 and if that dont pan out they will settle for less in their predetermined scedule. i ll settle for you later if i have too .

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sat 10/02/10 06:44 PM
people that are not forward that they are not interested is quite simple. people are always looking for the number 10 and if that dont pan out they will settle for less in their predetermined scedule. i ll settle for you later if i have too . Speak for yourself please...

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 10/05/10 12:12 PM
people that are not forward that they are not interested is quite simple. people are always looking for the number 10 and if that dont pan out they will settle for less in their predetermined scedule. i ll settle for you later if i have too . Speak for yourself please... It's cool, because someone will 'settle' for him.