why is the father love open and giving and for giving but are love well,, we but stander on it .like if your smarter then someone ales. not only would we not love them .we would not say hello them. after all we dont have time. can we really love or are we just thinking we can

We have no clue on what love is. We think we know, but we won't truely know what love is till we leave this earth and see our father.

so if we do not what love is ?maybe that why we can not fine what we are looking for if we dont know what it is we seek

I think we have a disadvantage of trying to understand Gods nature by comparing it to mans

dont forget God is also just, our worldly view of love and 'forgiveness' sometimes makes just consequence the same as non forgiveness

God understands us but it takes an effort to stand in Gods shoes(metaphorically speaking) and see things from a Godly perspective for us to understand ourselves as well as he does

That's why so many marriages don't last. They don't truly grasp better or worse. People don't see what that may lead to. Love is the greatest gift in existence, a very rarely seen emotion. People these days are like little kids and anything shiny catches their eyes. As in, if they see a very beautiful woman in their eyes and hit it off pretty good, they think they love the person, when in all honesty they are only greatly infatuated with him/her. And when the crap starts rolling down hill they bail off the path and stray away rather then face it hand in hand. You CAN'T claim that you are head over heals for so and so, and that you would do ANYTHING for that person, then you get in a couple fights over petty things and it breaks it, that there shows that they never did true LOVE each other. Love doesn't come and go, it is and always will be.

Jesus said:

Matthew 5:

43, "Ye have heard that it hath been said,
Thou shalt love thy neighbour,
and hate thine enemy.

44, "But I say unto you,
Love your enemies,
bless them that curse you,
do good to them that hate you,
and pray for them which despitefully use you,
and persecute you;

45, "That ye may be the children of your Father
which is in heaven:
for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil
and on the good,
and sendeth rain on the just
and on the unjust.

46, "For if ye love them which love you,
what reward have ye?
do not even the publicans the same?

47, "And if ye salute your brethren only,
what do ye more than others?
do not even the publicans so?

48, "Be ye therefore perfect,
even as your Father which is in heaven
is perfect."

Lord said it is ezzer to under man nature then God but if we do not understand are nature .to say to begin with and if we go and seek that under standing of man but we will never under it as well so that leave us in a pickle . but we all want to love and be love dont we. but, not know the meaning of this. and yet we all need it

first you should not be fight and getting mad over thing to the porit that you are hurting one other by it and your love for each other goes open the window .you not, hurt so one feeling and then you love in the same way as they did before .talking is good but only if your not hurting the other by it . sometime we need to think about what to say then fly off . hurt another by what we say

one day if we keep with the lord we will be perfect when he comes back but we are not but, boy wish i was. and it so hard to love with out it, think that what they wood like you to be